Please help me here very depressed 10 pts?

my bf well he was up until 2 weeks ago said that are lives are messed up and we needed to part until we can straighten them out but he wants to get back together when that happens cause we have something good and he sees a future with me. well he promises to not be physical with other woman cause he dosent want to hurt me. and that he still cares deeply for me. he came with me to church because he said it would strength our relationship and help it grow. he kept asking to meet my children and father. he told my friends we were together. and he still keeps staring at me calling me bueatiful. he says he can't loose me and when i metion other men he says i am trying to hurt him. he texted wed. asking for some space because he will be in cali visiting friends and busy until mon nite.and the space would be good to reflect on us and if we could live without one another. then thurs. he calls saying he just had to say goodbye be4 he left and then joked around with me. and

saying sweet things like i am more than just a friend to him. and he still sees potential for an us. and no other girl. well then he says i have something to tell you but i don't think you will kill me over it. a girl (he told me was just a friend that had a crush on him) in cali and him are kinda of dating!! wtf! he says that everyone knows including both of their churches. and we are very religious people. he says he needs some time to sort out his feelings and is telling everyone about the sitution and is talking to her about it. he says it was be4 he met me. so then y start this big love affair with me for 6 months and even talk about love, marriage, and me having his babies!? what can i do til he calls me on tues. to explain what the hell he is doing? i am so confused and hurt right now! i am very depressed over it all! is he coming back to me?

He is keeping you on hold just in case he finds someone more interesting...and if he can't he will be back....KICK HIM TO THE CURB!!!
You cannot be committed to some one if you are wondering if there if someone better out there. F____ him!!!!

The Doc say's,
Do you want to be messed about like this for ever. Get a grip and tell the guy you want to be treated right. If he can't, you shouldnt.
Walk away, find a new love and be true to yourself.

my luv.

WOW!!....honey, in my opinion, no good can come of this. He sounds wishy washy. Like maybe wondering if the grass is greener on the other side, maybe you were his rebound from this other girl. I would be extremely casual and even a little cold when he calls. If he is "the one" then it will happen, but not by your hands. you sound religious/spiritual, rely on your god, pray. Don't let this man hurt you!!!