Boyfriends best friend is a female?

I just met this guy a few weeks ago, we've had our ups and downs but we basically called it "official" last night. He's known this girl since he was in middle school, he is now 19, and as far as I know they've never hooked up or anything. We all hung out last night and watched a movie for about an hour before his friend had to go pick something up in a neighboring town. She asked if we wanted to go with her and I didn't really want to go because there was no point to just sit in the car, but of course I didn't want to be rude..so we ended up going with her and her sister. When we got back he pretty much ignored me the rest of the night and talked to his friend and her sister. Didn't grab my hand, didn't give me a hug, didn't cuddle me on the coach..nothing. This got me thinking and now I'm completely paranoid. I was thinking that maybe he really loves her, but she will never be with him so he just stays friends with her and gets other gfs to fill the space that she cant..?

When we got home last night he asked me what I thought of her, and I said she's cool. Then I asked HIM what he thought of her and he said "she's a badass". She also has a boyfriend, and has never really interfered in our relationship. He's answered her phone calls in front of me before, but everynow and then I'll see him text someone late at night before we go to sleep and/or early in the morning when he wakes up for work and I cant help but think hes texting her goodnight or goodmorning or something. Maybe I'm just being too paranoid? I'm not jealous of her and I'm trying not to be selfish but I don't want her to end up being more important than me if I'm the one he is dating.

Don't make assumptions that will mess with your head, you haven't known him very long. He probably just didn't want to be too affectionate in front of other people, there are plenty of guys like that. If there's never been anything between them, there probably never will be. The worst thing you can do is show you're jelous or threatened by this girl as that will push him towards her as they've been friends for so long. Just trust him, he hasn't given you any reason not to.

a guy and a girl cannot be best friends without one or the other being attracted t each other. either he really loves her and she doesn't feel the same, or she really loves him and he doesn't love her back but enjoys the comfort of it. i think it's time for you to call it off and make your intentions clear.

I would ask hem if he likes her like that if he saided aks i would tell hem it was over you like her they is no room for me!!!

i think you should talk to him about it. Even bring up the whole texting message thing. Be honest with him. I can understand the thoughts you are having, but you never know it can be just because they have known each other longer. I notice this happens with friends of mine. (All Girls) We they want me to meet one of their friends they have known longer and have more memeries with i felt left out when they started talking and walking down memeroy lane and i had nothing to say, but they dont do it on purpose. Talk to him, and maybe even the friend about it. Dont forget your place though. Yall have only been dating one day and shes been his friend for a while.

maybe he just wanted to spend some time with her friend. act sad when he does it the next time and the next day till he askes whats wrong and then you tell him that you are a little paranoid because he ignored you. or when he does that again say that you go to go or get up and do something else while he is talking. or you could get one of your friends and do the same exact thing that he did and just pay attention to your friend and when she leaves, act normal around him...... i know this is all manipulating but... i think that you should do something else while they talk and act sad unless you are sad.

i had that girl in my bfs life. he forgot all about her after spending time with me. what i know is, that for a guy and a girl to be friends and completely platonic they have to go through a process:
they have to like each other
enjoy each other's company
notice at some point in their friendship that they are a boy (with a penis) and girl (with a vagina)
put that out in the open
decide they're not each other's object of desire
then move on and stay friends.
i hope your boyfriend has done that because you do not need at that baggage in your relationship. be confident and it's only normal that a relationship will bring out some of your insecurities. make sure u get through them because there will always be a girl that's "just friends" with ur bf. i'm not saying that u should compete for his love, i'm just saying that you beat her out of ur bf's attention.

Thats hard...Sorry but you going ot have to deal with the girl or lose him...Theres nothing else that can be done about it...

I know your fears tho...Your worried in the end he will realize he loves her and they will finally get together and toss you aside...Tell him that fear...

I married my best friend.
Cut your loses now.. he's comfortable around her..he's just testing the waters ...he went out on a date with her without directly dating her..
she might not be with him now..but that doesn't change it later.. if he is that caught up with her leave..

just ask him does he like her and is there anything going on. He probably just got caught up in the good time they were having. tell him that you would like for him to show you a little more affection. If he truly likes you he will be happy to.