Love at first sight is known to be crap.do you agree?

i recently(this year) saw this guy who works at a place where me and my friends meet up to study. I can't help but notice his movements and his actions. The first time i saw him, he was sitting down and reading a book. There was a quite pretty girl who sat next to my seat and as i was doing my work,i saw two pairs of eyes staring at my direction.I thought he was looking at the girl,but then when i looked up,his eyes when straight to the book.I saw him quite a few more times after making more trips to that place.i also noticed whenever there is a free table near mine,he would quickly sit there and use his handphone or just stare to blank space.once when i gt up from my seat,and walked passed his seat,he suddenly got up from his seat and we kinda paused there for like 2 seconds before we walked separate directions.now i rarely get to see him.i dont know why but i miss him.i would be delighted when i see him.
are all his actions just a coincidence or is he trying to tell me something?

Probably concidence. It's obvious from your question that you watch his every move... So it's probable that you take every little thing he does to be something it isn't. Which is understandable... Everyone does it when they see someone they like.

Just relax. It's too bad you don't see him anymore... You should've tried talking to him. Might've had something there.

And no, I don't believe in love at first sight. It's physical attraction at first sight.

Yes, this is what it feels like, it's physical attraction between the two of you. It's love and I'm confident that he's thinking about you as well. Why not talk to him next time you see, introduce yourself, get to know him a little.

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Jordan

I don,t think love at first sight is crap at all ,what ur feeling dosen,t even have to be love it sounds to me like u just saw someone whom u like ur vibes just take him an probaly he,s felling the same who knows . try say hi

There's lust at first sight, but not love. Love takes time to grow.

WELL IT SOUNDS TO ME LIKE YOU REALLY LIKE THIS GUY. YOU TWO ARE VERY SHY. THAT'S CUTE BUT BABY GIRL LIFE IS SHORT AND YOU HAVE TO MAKE THE MOST OF IT BECAUSE IF YOU DON'T ENJOY LIFE WHILE YOU'RE HERE THEN YOU WILL DIE ALONE AND SAD. NOW I SUGGEST THAT YOU TAKE A RISK AND THE VERY NEXT TIME THAT YOU SEE HIM YOU GO UP TO HIS TABLE AND ASK HIM IF HE MINDS IF YOU JOIN HIM. IF HE LET'S YOU THEN HE LIKES YOU AND YOU START A CONVERSATION. ASK HIM THINGS ABOUT HIM LIKE WHAT'S HIS NAME, FAVORITE SPORT, HOBBIES ETC. AFTER THAT EXCHANGE NUMBERS AND START TO TALK ON A REGULAR BASIS MEET AT THE PLACE AND GO ON SOME DATES AFTER A FEW MONTHS ASK HIM TO BE YOUR MAN IF HE HASN'T ASKED FIRST. GOOD LUCK

i think "love at first sight" is misinterpreted by many people. i believe in it.. but i think my belief in it is because i think of the phrase in a different way. like the first time i met my current crush - i was sooo nervous.. no one ever made me feel like that. i wasn't "in love" with him.. but there was a huge emotional and physical attraction that i have only felt once a very long time ago.

the only other guy i ever "loved" i met when i was 18. and i remember that day because it was really weird... we were standing back-to-back.. i was chatting with my group of friends and he his. i backed up and i accidentally bumped into him.. and when i bumped into him i felt a chill run all the way up my body, from my toes to my head. and i never even looked at him nor met him before and he made me feel that way just by bumping into him! then i turned around to apologize and we started talking from there.. and again it was a huge physical and emotional attraction.. but i wouldn't say i was "in love" with him right from the beginning.

when i say "love at first sight" i don't mean i automatically fell in love with these guys, there was just a really big connection where i knew what i wanted from those two (even though they didn't work out). love takes time to grow, but that first initial meeting told me it would grow and that's what i call "love at first sight". people just need to stop taking the phrase too literally and understand that there IS an underlying meaning to it.


it seems like you both have an attraction to each other and you should really try talking to him. it is possible to have a strong attraction to someone without ever talking to them.. i know i have experienced that before and you should never let those situations pass you by!

be the one to approach him if he is too shy/scared to approach YOU. just go and say hi.. introduce yourself, and don't worry about what to say next.. you'll figure it out once you're in the moment.

It sounds like you're attracted to each other. Not love at first sight (I agree that there's no such thing), but attraction. Next time you see him, actually talk to him, and find out if you actually get along. Nothing much else you can do until then.