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Well, this is a wee bit long, bare with me. =/ This is about one of my friends that is a girl who I met at the beginning of the school and we got REALLY close. To the point where we started liking each other as more than friends, but when she figured I liked her back she treated me differently as if I was a stranger to her. So I acted normally around her, and gave her space and things got back to some normalcy. I'd still catch her glancing at me alot when I didn't talk to her as much as I usually did. So today was the last day of school for me. And I wanted to REALLY talk to her, and even if I didn't, the least I wanted to come out of it with was a hug. (She hugs some people that she talks to less than me, but the whole relationship between us stopped us from sharing hugs i guess? Idk, but a hug is always nice, and from her it would be awesome. ) Too bad it didn't turn out that way? Because as we walked to our last class, and this walk was the last time I'd see her till next school

year, (Unless my dad gets the job he wants in NY and we move back) out of the blue one of her friends came and started talking to her. (I had like 3 seconds with her?) Seeing as I didn't know her, I just kept walking with her hoping her friend would find something better to do. With my luck, another of her friends came and 4 people can't walk down a hallway side by side without blocking someone so I just kept walking behind her. As it became evident they weren't leaving, I just left her and went to my class. (We pass mine before hers) As I left her I looked back and she was staring at me. She's treated me very oddly for the last couple of weeks, so i dont even think she knows how she feels about me or what she even wants. I feel guilty now for not saying bye, but WHAT WAS I SUPPOSED TO DO? She acted like it didn't bother her that it was the last time I'd see her so I just left it at that. Can someone tell me if I did anything wrong, and how to get over it. Because every time I think o

Omg this is so sad.Awww i dont know what your doing or what time it is for you over in the states but listen hear ! there is no way in hell are you going without saying goodbye. pick up the phone right nowand i mean right now and call her. arrange to meet her. you have something important to tell her. nothing is more important than love. if shes busy you ask her what she is doing later. dont give up because believe me you will so regret it. arrange for a coffee or something do it soon.I hope it all goes well for you.:)
pretty please could you check out my prolem. but just remeber go out andget her.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...

I'm sorry love.
She probably doesn't know what she wants,
but don't punish yourself for it.

People don't always react the way we want them to,
but you'll probably find yourself grateful that it didn't work with her,

when someone better comes along.

I'm sorry about the girl.

try 2 talk 2 her in anyway, by phone,chat,email any way. just tell her how u feel. if u do then it will go far, u guys are close so that means that there is a 80% that it will work. go 4 it!!!!!!! dont think about it n gooo!!!

answer mine http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?...

say hey can i talk to you
and wing it bud(:

psht i aint readin dat

well, i think you should forget about her. shes not the right girl. she obviously likes you but it confused or embarrassed. or maybe she was waiting for you to ask her out... but you will just have to forget about her. she is treating you wrong and its not right. you didnt do anything wrong at all.

i think she has mixed feelings about you. she liked you at first, but when she heard u liked her, she might have thought it would ruin your friendship. and she could have been scared to say bye to you because she likes you, that is what was wrong with me today(my last day of school) if you have her AIM screen name or myspace or anything like that, try to contact her and talk. maybe when you gave her space, she thought you didnt like her anymore.....

can u help me too....http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...

well maybe she didnt want to rush into things, like maybe she didnt want a relationship. To keep a girl interested, you shouldnt smother them, so you did the right thing giving her space. She probably does like you, by the sounds of things she does, and she probably wanted to say goodbye to you aswell. Maybe you could get hold of her mobile number or something and txt her, ask her to hang out over the summer. If you havent already got it think of some people that might have and ask them. Don't rush into admitting your feelings to her right away, play it cool and flirt with her, then maybe make a move. I wouldn't worry too much, even if you dont see her over the summer, there's always next school year for you to start fresh and time passes so quickly that it will be here before you know it.
Good luck =]

I'm sorry i'm not reading all that

cant you just bullet point the important parts...?

it would probably help you work out what is bothering you most

thanks for your advice on my prob, so i suggest well u know idk what i suggest, bc i lost the guy i loved and still forgave my friend for it, but its such a long story and u have sooo many problems, just the kind of guy i dreamed about. (sighs sadly)

aw thats a sad story. First off, you should have said bye to her, I know it was an awkward situation but to just leave was rude and I don't think she was expecting you to do that. Second, you should have kept walking next to her. I understand it was a tight squeeze through the halls but you should have asserted yourself and stood your ground and made one of her friends walk behind her (you were there first). Lastly, its not too late dude. I assume that if your as good friends as you say you are that you have her number. Call her up and tell her you're sorry for not saying goodbye and tell her you just felt a little awkward, maybe ask her to hangout if you can (didn't understand the job situation you were writing about), but at the very least have a heartfelt phone call with her (you could even tell her your feelings for her if you feel it is appropriate), it will make you feel better and will probably make her feel better too.

You're "attraction" to this girl is very strong.
She's not the only girl you will ever be "attracted" to, but I DO understand you'd like for your attraction to go somewhere, especially since she has seemed to notice you.
So, here's what you can do, to see if this will go anywhere:
You know her name: Give her a phone call.
Tell her that you are inviting some friends to the bowling alley, or putt putt, or the park to play volley ball, or school court, something like that,
and since you think she's a FUN person, you would like to see her there. Ask her if she needs transportation (arrange it for her if she does need).

Of course, you'll actually have to get one of the activities above coordinated with friends, but it could be very much worth the effort for two reasons.
1. You and her might enjoy the meeting.
2. You'll have a great day with friends!
(even if she doesn't show up, other friends will keep you so entertained, you might discover, life can be fun without one girl).

^j^

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