Ive lost the guy i love how do i get him bak?

I met a guy in Melbourne. 20 hr drive from where I am now. I moved here to b with him after 3 months. Then we moved in together. We were living together for about 14mths and then I decided I needed a break鈥?. Just a bit of space. So I moved out. It was the only way鈥?and me and my boyfriend then broke up. After 2months living apart I realised I wanted him back. I still had a bit of doubt. I think I just had to find myself. There was no other guy鈥? I just wasn鈥檛 happy. Career wise/ with friends and stuff. I thought he was the thing holding me back. N e way鈥?after a while I got sik of it鈥?I wanted him to leave me alone again鈥 know how persistent he is so I said I had met sum 1 else鈥? But hadn鈥檛鈥︹€? 2 weeks later I had time to really think and just b alone and not listen to my friends and their opinions and decided. No im not happy not that I have a good job + a good social circle鈥?and realise, He wasn鈥檛 holding me bak. It was myself. So I asked him to meet me where I told him. He turned around and said he cant go through it again but I know that if we got bak together that it would b different. I have really sorted myself out鈥? I realise now that its not what you do but who you have to do stuff with that makes you happy and not to take him for granted. But its too late. What do I do. He wont return my calls my messages or meet me. I really want this guy so please don鈥檛 give suggestions and say move on鈥?. because its not the answer! I love this guy more than words can describe. I don鈥檛 know how to get him back. He told me that he hates the fact that he loves me鈥? So hes still got feelings. Should I just give him space. How much though? I don鈥檛 want him to think that I don鈥檛 love him by giving him too much?????????? Plz help. I have no 1 really close to ask鈥?.

that was exactly what i didnt want to hear. Thankyou

First of all, stop phoning and texting him. It makes you appear desperate and that will turn anybody off in 2 seconds flat. He is running away because you are chasing him. The minute you stop doing that, and he realises you can be happy without him, he will then have an opportunity to rethink his decision. At the risk of sounding maniuplative, it's reverse psychology and it works like a charm.

By dropping out of sight he then has a chance to miss you - he can't miss you if you keep sending him messages.

If he does contact you again, tell him you agree with and respect his decision to end the relationship, and leave it at that. That's your best chance.

well you go to him and tell him bluntly that your still in love with him and you won't take no for an answer!!!!!!!!!!!!

he doesn't want u back.. get over it

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well... thats the truth, ur gonna have to live with it, and find someone els

give him some time for himself.. so he can think clearly and realize what he really wants. like give him at least a month of space (some guys even needs more like 2 to 4 months)..
then if he still hasn't contacted you, and if you still want him, one day just go meet him somewhere or just visit and have "that" talk.. it's either he may want to move on.. or may say he needs more time.. either way its your choice whether to stick it out with him or go your own way.

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