Do I call my man...Im so confused?

trying to keep this short, ive been dating a man for a year now, awesome year & holidays, no fighting or anythng. He had been in 20yr relationship and & was also in long term, but we met right after his divorce. One week before our 1yr anniversary he blindsided me with 3rd degree questions, saying he doesnt know if his feelings were jsut to get over the ex or what that he felt he needed space, that he had insecurities and jealousy too & got scared & was also under alot of stress trying to sell house with ex & find new place to live. I let him have space but wasnt aware it meant be like enemies. I poured my heart in a few emails & he said i was stalking him. Ive done everything for this man but now its been 8weeks and i havent heard a word. He is a UPS driver & delivers to my bldg so i see him often but my backing off doesnt seem to get me anywhere. AT one point he said he would talk to me again but not right now. Since then he has moved & I now know nothing at all. What do i do??

You sound like you're being obsessive about this guy. You really have to let it go. Once a man says that he does not want to be with you and calls you a stalker, you have to walk away from that and find love elsewhere. He's told you all that you need to know through both verbal communication and his actions. I assume that the only reason he strings you along is because he's too chicken not to and thinks he's doing you a favor by lessening the blow with a few, "I'll talk to you at some time..." gestures.

Just walk away from this one. Sorry.

Hi babe ! How awfull ! I definitely thing you should NOT call him ! I can advise you to read 2 wonderful books that will most probably answer all your questions. 1. THE COMPLETE BOOK OF RULES by Ellen Fein and Sherry Schneider and the 2. WHY MEN LOVE BITCHES ! by not sure who. Even if u dont read books I can assure u that these ones will suck u in and u ll probably finish it in a day as it is such true. U will definitely understand yourself and your man more. pls if u do read it,let me know what u think ! Would u ! I promise u they are the most fabulous 2 books I have ever read on relationships. I think every woman should read them both !