I need a guys opinion #2?

I dont even know why im asking but I just gota know the guys opinion. I was seeing this guy for like over 2 weeks. He's been back home from Germany getting out of the army for over a month now. We met online & I swear everything was going really good I mean its unexplainable how amazing everything went. Our first date was a nerve wreck but 2nd one was great then 3rd & started spending alot of time together like everyday & weekends. We grew to really like eachother & he said he liked me alot that I was the girl he wanted that he had feelings for me. One saturday night he asked me if id come to church with him the next morning & meet his family...I had my jaw to the floor didnt think he'd want me to meet them so quickly. I met his family the next day & it went really well I mean another great moment. The feelings grew really tense that we felt more than like...we cuddled in bed one nite & both muttered all scared to say that we felt love for eachother...yes, I fell in love & he said he felt the same way. The next nite he asked me to stay over & we had got intimate for the first time...it was nerve wrecking but great all at once. We both felt we were moving to fast & I woke up next to him which was amazing but I felt like something wasnt right. That same day I felt weird like he wasnt gona like me anymore for giving it up so quickly that we had a little dispute & he said i was over reacting that it was great having me that im worrying to much to not get that way. I felt so bad I hung up on him & just shut him out. For the rest of the weekend he didnt call or reply my texts. I gave him his space but few days later i called him again...he said he was upset & thought it was best if he needed time alone, that he wasnt ready for a relationship...that I wasnt ready either...he said its hard for me cause I still love you I still have feelings for you...i was shocked to hear this but im 25 not 15 so i was like sweety dont bullshit me just come out and say it, you just dont wana be with me....he quickly said it "if thats what it takes then fine I DONT WANA BE WITH YOU" I just dont get it we were fine...couple days earlier he was all over me hugging me kissing me being awesome...its been a week i dont hear from him and it hurts alot. I miss him alot, yet on his myspace he hasnt deleted me...what could have possibly gone wrong??

hunney. its a shallow relationship. i hate hearing that too. do you think its real love?

guys are jerks.... once they get what they want, they'll just treat you like a trash..... move on girl. find someone worth your love. and dont give in too fast so that you are able to determine whether he is the right one for you.

its called a playa he played the game made you think he was in love with you once you let him in thats all he wanted sorry but lots of guys are like that

You rushed everything by the looks of things, you did what a 16 year old would do and him also. I think you shoud ask him to start again and take things alot slower.