I think my husband is cheating?

I met my husband 3 years ago on a stupid chat line and trust me wont do that again.. We talked on the phone for about a month before we met. we fell in love and got ingadged. I started noticing he would turn his cell phone off and was out of town alot and asked him and he got mad at me. I looked at his email and sure enough he was talking to some girls and had his peronal ad on my space. We worked out things and got married. I then noticed he lied about everything and his family told me he had always had that problem. We fight all the time only because i dont trust him. Well we went to a store tonight and he didnt say anything to the check out girl and we left he forgot to get milk so went back. I sat in the car while he went in i decided to go in and get a coke and was standing behind him and he was flirting with this girl talking about a boyfriend or something like that and when he turned around and saw me he turned white as a ghost. Is it true once a cheater always a cheater??

considering how you met, i wouldnt doubt that he's just into picking up girls.
i think its time for a private investigator.
if youre not into stakeouts, just confront him and tell him you cant be with him if you dont trust him. tell him to look at it from where you are. it SEEMS like he's cheating and youre right not to sit back and be naive and gullible.

Im sorry did i read this right? You looked at his mail, he was talking to girls, had his personal ad on my space during the whole time you were dating and engaged and you felt this guy was trustworthy enough to marry? You knew this man couldnt be trusted from the beginning but you chose to ignore it.. Find someone who respects and love you..

No...it is not true....

HOWEVER...

The fact that he was caught "red handed" is a big giveaway!