Does anyone know a good song that talks about....?

being confused about where your relationship with your boy friend is going

I asked this b4 but im just tryina get as many answers as i can...

me n my bf r taking a break rite now cuz theirs a lot of things i need to think about n figure out b4 we can go any forward in our relationship we've been going through a lot hes just not the same person i met 2 yrs ago n i want a song that kind of talks about this to put on my, my space page.

R&B hip hop or slow jams those types of music would be great, Thanks in advance.

"Fallin'" by Alicia Keys
"Easy" by The Commodores
"Is It A Crime" by Sade
Those are the only 2 that come to mind in R&B/slow jams.

Mary J. Blige has a lot of good songs about heartache and pain you should check out her music.

i have a great one but its not r&b or hip hop. it's called "you and i" from jason mraz. here are some of the lyrics
you and i both loved
what you and i spoke of
and others just dream of
the love that i knew..
and its okay if you had to go away
oh just remember the telephone well it works both ways
and if i never ever see your face
if nothing else i'll know the bells inside have finally found you someone and that's okay
cuz i remember everything you said
cuz you and i both loved
what you and i spoke of
and others just dream of
the love, the love that i know