The guy I looked up and adored to ---> evil?

There is this guy I really liked... and I still like him sadly. I'm a warm individual and a bit naive at times but very personable. I met this guy two years ago in person. Never found a guy like him...and i've been looking, flirting, and i'm attractive. He comforted me many many times. I'm still waiting to see him again... while keeping my options open. Anyway, he's known I've liked him for a long time. Yesterday we really got into an argument. He's a big flirt. He thinks "Flirting is nothing. Nothing at all." He called me "a very naive girl." for waiting. When I told him how I've been using guys and their feelings to get what I want because he does it to girls and how I was ashamed of myself, he actually said, "thats good. there's nothing wrong with that. you should get accustomed to it. that's how the real world is. there is no space for petty emotions." I was absolutely stunned. I saw this as a lapse in character while he saw it as a good thing. What do you think?

On a average most guys/girls do the flirting game. It can be a good thing or a bad thing. You never no how the other person is going to take it. It doesn't take much to get a person in the flirting game. One thing in which, you have found out - you never no what the person is going to be like or what they are wanting? I think this guy is one to throw back to the fish pond and try for another!!!

I think that he showed his true colors and you should move on. Thank goodness you saw him for what he truly is instead of being in a relationship with him and really developed feelings for him. He's an idiot!

wow hunny ..if i were you id get outta there ...its looking alot like heart break ...if what you see as a bad thing ..he takes as a good thing ....that's not very good because it is messing with what you believe ..now I'm not saying he can't have an opinion ....but i think yours is more right ..and if i were you ...i would get out of there ....nicely as possible ...... good luck hun

woah sounds like something i'd probobly say.but he's right alot of people feel the same as how you felt and in the world we live in today it is nothing wrong with that.im a lil quiet sometimes and i grew accustomed to it.You must learn to feel relaxed with your flaws