The guy I adored and looked up to ---> evil?

There is this guy I really liked... and I still like him sadly. I'm a warm individual and a bit naive at times but very personable. I met this guy two years ago in person. Never found a guy like him...and i've been looking, flirting, and i'm attractive. He comforted me many many times. I'm still waiting to see him again... while keeping my options open. Anyway, he's known I've liked him for a long time. Yesterday we really got into an argument. He's a big flirt. He thinks "Flirting is nothing. Nothing at all." He called me "a very naive girl." for waiting. When I told him how I've been using guys and their feelings to get what I want because he does it to girls and how I was ashamed of myself, he actually said, "thats good. there's nothing wrong with that. you should get accustomed to it. that's how the real world is. there is no space for petty emotions." I was absolutely stunned. I saw this as a lapse in character while he saw it as a good thing. What do you think?

Not evil, just stupid. You are not naive, he is. He has yet to realize that people dislike a person like him. Flirting IS and always has been a big deal, and people who lead others on like that get bad repuations, and they get disliked or hated. No one wants to be with someone who doesn't always mean what they say, and flirting is saying you really like someone. Using others is definately wrong (though in your defense, it is also perfectly human) and should be stopped. Using others, for any reason, is painful to everyone, and to think "that's how the real world is" is a cynical, harsh view that leaves him jaded and hurt, while the rest of the world moves on.
Quite possibly he's been hurt a lot, and just stopped caring, because he thinks he will always be hurt. There is no way to change this, he has to learn these lessons on his own. You keep on going the way you are, and working on stopping using people. and Yes, it was a highly showing lapse in character, and now that you know what he is really like, I'd say go for those other options you've been keeping open.

you are right!!!
he is a wrong wrong wrong loser

seriously?? omg

try and get over him
RUN and dont look back because he will come after you
and just use you


xoxoxoxo

Don't like a jackass.