Q. 4 woman..I love this woman and it's just a mess! What should I do? Men can answer too...?

A year ago she took a class from me. We became friends and she spent a lot of time at my studio. She asked me to meet her and her husband for a drink one day. I did and saw her husband talking to girls at the bar. I asked if she liked being a wife and mother girls 13&19 Answer, Mother yes WIFE NO!
Then our love affair started we saw each other all we could. About 3 months into it I got a midnight call pleading for me to pick her up they were both drinking. I did and was confronted by her drunk husband he said take her and pushed her to the ground. She went home after 2 days of being with me to talk with her girls and it was 30 days until I saw her again. It's been off and on for us then she moved out and filed for divorce. We have had some loving days and weekends she says HER BEST in life, but were not talking again. She's a mess fighting with him, drinking, Suicidal and her kids HATE me. She wants space but I see her going down hill fast. Love her want to help without loosing her

how can you lose something you never had?

You need to stay out of it.Give her space.If she's going to leave him ,she needs to do it for herself not for you. I know it can't be easy for you,but your not making it easy for her if you try to contact her.Believe me, when she's ready she'll let you know.

Get out of there!! Run as far and as fast as you can away from this trainwreck! You don't need this. You can't save her! Save yourself from the pain and heart ache.

Wow it sounds like she needs therapy and fast! Give her space. I would stay away from this situation. I seriously doubt she is going to leave her husband.