Should I even be in a relationship?

Well I'm 29 and I just started my first relationship (I'm gay) to a guy that is very sweet guy and he is really loyal. He is such a nice guy. He is willing to relocate wherever I want to go and even willing to be where I want to be. He wants to make me feel so comfortable.

But it is like, I am so used to being alone and I kind of like my space. I met him with the intentions of being friends and it progressed to a direction that I'm not sure I wanted to go in the first place.

Plus I feel like I'm not at the place I want to be in life and I'm still trying to attain my dream. So I feel like I shouldn't be in a relationship because I like my space and working on myself. However my bf is willing to make me feel so comfortable.

I think he is cute enough but not hot like I imagine the person I should be. Although looks shouldn't all matter. Are these feelings normal? I'm wondering if I should go along with the flow. Does anyone have any experience with this? Thanks in advance.

ewww, anyway...just take it slow. It seems you like him but you like your personal time too. Take it slow as with any relationship. You'll have time for you and you won't feel pressured or suffocated, and he can still be around too. Slow is comfortable and he's all about your comfort right?

You joking I know it.

You're getting older. You better not let the bus pass you by because you won't be getting many more opportunities. The same thing goes for hetereosexual people when they hit 30.

Ok here goes lol,

I know it has been said a million times over but dont listin to other people, JUST YOURSELF, when the time comes you'll know what to do.

If you want to you can even explain your problems/worries with your partner as if hes worth keeping he surly will know and understand, he will stay with you.

I hope this helps? Im not to sure it will?

By the way, im a 13 year-old kid.

I'm kinda in the same situation. I've been with my man for about a year now and I love him to death, but everytime he gets me stressed out, i just want to get away from him. I often think I deserve a better man, better looking, better educated and with a better job. But then I look at all he's done for me and ask myself "where would i be if it wasn't for him?" I guess im still kinda confused especially since there is another man that i like. Im working on acheiving my dream and life and if my man can support me and stand by my side, i guess this is where i will stay for now.