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In a bit of a conundrum. What on earth should I do!? :( Advice would be most welcome!?


I'm in my first year of University and next year i've ended up living in a student house with three guys. Don't ask why i'm living with them - its not ideal. One of them is a guy that I have liked for about 6 months, we've got lots in common and are quite good friends.

It would be so simple to just get over him and enjoy living with him next year, but the problem is, I think he might really like me too, and there is no way I can get over him any more.

I think he might like me because:
- We invade each others personal space loads
- Use any excuse to meet up
- He 'comes to my rescue' lots
- He seems to find it hard to talk around me
- Subtly flirts with me
- His friends seem to keep hinting

I think he might like me, but not want to say anything becuase we have to live with each other next year. Thats exactly what i'm doing, but i'm worried we might both decide its best to move on, and miss out on something really special.

What do you guys think?

Yes, your current living arrangement would make for quite a conundrum if you two decide to date. What happens if things don't work out... would you or him move out? Who would have the 'right' to stay, who would be forced to move? Could you two handle being around one another if you or he decides to date? Would lingering drama infringe on the atmosphere of the house?
On the flip side, you need to know first off if he really likes you. If he does and you do to, then try it out with some ground rules. If it works out, then you may have met your soul mate. If it doesn't work out, and you two remain friends, then no harm done and you can get on with your life. Good luck on what ever you decide.

ummmm........just ask if he would be interested in a relationship.

I just had to comment because i love the word conundrum.

He likes you.

SteveC

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