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Complicated Situation - what do you think? Should I go for it?


I'm in my first year of University and next year i've ended up living in a student house with three guys. One of them is a guy that I have liked for about 6 months.

We're in the same society and meet through that about 4/5 times a week. We've also become good friends since i've known him.

It would be so simple to just get over him and enjoy living with him next year, but the problem is, I think he might really like me too, and there is no way I can get over him any more.

I think he might like me because:
- We invade each others personal space loads
- Use any excuse to meet up
- He 'comes to my rescue' lots
- He seems to find it hard to talk around me
- Subtly flirts with me
and lots of other signs

I think he might like me, but not want to say anything becuase we have to live with each other next year. Thats exactly what i'm doing, but i'm worried we might both decide its best to move on, and miss out on something really special.

What do you think?

just enjoy the company untill you find right time to ask questions you really asked me

wow. let this one sort of die down a bit. trust me, i saw that kinda stuff happen in college and rarely did it end well. sorry to say. i say let him make all the moves, if it happens. continue to be sweet and kind, but know if this didn't work, it could make your life really tough.

I have seen this from the other side, and my advice would be to cool off a bit. If it is going to work, it will, but if forced and fails it is a problem.

University is a brand new big world to explore - make the most of it. There is plenty of time in later life for the in-depth relationship stuff.

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