Complicated Situation, what do you think? Should I go for it?

I'm in my first year of University and next year i've ended up living in a student house with three guys. One of them is a guy that I have liked for about 6 months.

We're in the same society and meet through that about 4/5 times a week. We've also become good friends since i've known him.

It would be so simple to just get over him and enjoy living with him next year, but the problem is, I think he might really like me too, and there is no way I can get over him any more.

I think he might like me because:
- We invade each others personal space loads
- Use any excuse to meet up
- He 'comes to my rescue' lots
- He seems to find it hard to talk around me
- Subtly flirts with me
and lots of other signs

I think he might like me, but not want to say anything becuase we have to live with each other next year. Thats exactly what i'm doing, but i'm worried we might both decide its best to move on, and miss out on something really special.

What do you think?

Ok it seems like it could work out and be a great relationship, but if your actually going to be living with him in the same student housing area i would say to wait... at least until you wont be invading each others space as much.

Just because if something does happen and your still living togeather it can be really awkward. Or the other guys might have to deal with who they side with...

good luck

ok, how is this complicated, JUST TELL HIM YOU LIKE HIM!

If you're grasping for all those signs but he's not making a move, he's not as interested in you as you think he is. Sorry.

you should ask him what he really thinks of you
he probably does feel the same way try and get him to spill first and then try to explain you feelings towards him
things will work out trust me and if you dont end up in a relationship at least you know you have a great friend that you can look at but 99% he likes you alot

Go for it. No regrets. Worst case -- one of you will have to find another place to live.

Get him alone for a dinner or video, make sure there's some alcohol, and enjoy...

Girl i think you guys should go for it. Break all the rules and declare your feelings for him. Because you shouldn't live your life in regret. And if he says no he is missing out on a really wonderful girl

If there's somewhere else you could live in case things with him don't work out. Then go forit, tell him you like and give him the bigesst and most memorable kiss of his life.

Listen to you inner self. If yourself is saying self, go get the man i might grow old with, would you do it. don't let opportunity run away form you and then you run after it, the first sign of opportunity, YOU need to take that, then run with the total package, including this Mr. Man. Go get your MAN!!!!

Anels right, this ain't rocket science...if now a long term serious affair that turns to everlasting love....you wouldn't want to lose the opportunity at making a life long friend.

Dont go for it

I can't imagine, in this world, why you'd think that a girl should be cohabitating with three boys! Are there any other girls involved?

Find yourself some female roommates and date the guy, but if you cohabit and date and (almost inevitably) break up, you'll be forced together unnecessarily.

By your description, I think he likes you intensely and is biding his time until you are together under one roof. A smart girl would be concerned.

may its just me but i miss the complicated part.....

sweetie, you should tell him how you feel and how much you want to be with him.by the sounds of it,he really likes you and wants the same thing...i will be utterly shocked if he says otherwise.if he doesnt feel the same way....find someone better,i know what i said hutrs but as the saying goes....theres alot more fish in the sea xxxx

It seens like there is definitely something giung on between the two of you. Why not try to get to know him even better and see where that takes you? You could ask him what he likes to do for fun. If he mentions anything you also like, ask if he would like to do it together. Skating, biking, hiking, arcade, etc. Ask if he wants to email, text or IM. You have some jokes you want to send him. See Source. When you are living in same house with him, it will be easy to find excuses to spend time together. Do laundry, study, shop, watch TV, etc.

ask him out

Sounds like you have alot in common and your attracted to him.
"They" say it in his kiss.
Kiss him, if it dosent feel right, act accordingly.

Maybe, if you both move on then the opportunity you're both looking for may present it's self. Getting to know each other is one thing but once you've lived with a person the mystery is gone. People need to stop putting so much energy into settling down with the first person they get along with.