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My obsessed classmate won't stop irritating me & leads me to outbursts! What do I do?


I already asked a question about this, here's the link:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...

But don't read it, it's long & what I'm typing down is what's going on right now. I know there's a few annoying people out there in everyday life but the guy I'm going through is not just annoying, he's very irritating & will not leave me alone, period.
He's friendly but it seems like he's obsessed with me! He鈥檚 has two periods with me ever since I changed periods b/c I didn鈥檛 get along with this girl & there鈥檚 no way I鈥檓 going back. He wouldn鈥檛 stop talking to me; he says all these random, stupid things to me every second. He always tries to get my attention. He鈥檚 this small runt with a HUGE nose & really pale skin thinking that I鈥檒l be his future wife. Wow, that鈥檚 not going to happen. I know I sound rude right now but I鈥檓 really ticked off. I鈥檝e been asking him gently, calmly to leave me alone persistently but he would never stop & I don鈥檛 think he ever will. I鈥檝e been getting headaches these days & I鈥檝e been getting many thoughts rushing through my head & I鈥檝e already explained that to him that I need some space & some time to myself, he still won鈥檛 leave me alone & whenever thoughts of him irritating me rushes into my head which happens like 70 times a day, it gets me crying after school, have outbursts, & give out attitudes to others & triggers my actions with anger & now, my mom鈥檚 not giving me allowance money this week. SHOOT! He comes up to me out of nowhere at school in hallways saying 鈥淗I!鈥?鈥淗I!鈥?鈥淗I!鈥?jumping up at me because he鈥檚 pretty short. The counselor promised me to have a meeting with Nick & me next week but I鈥檓 getting nightmares at night that he鈥檒l still be jumping up at me in hallways & tells me stupid, random things every second.

To Yahoo! Answers User, Secret.: That's a stupid answer! Sorry I'm being mean but your answer is literally, really dumb. I've had other guys like me, not just him & that's not the right way to attract a girl or the way to treat a girl just b/c that person likes a girl.
I bet no girls are interested in you because you're annoying just like the guy who irritates me when interested in a girl.

Only you know deep down what the answer is here, or why he is doing this. Sounds like he likes you. Either that or he likes annoying you. Your outbursts must be giving him quite a show. If he does like you, he sounds pretty disturbed or very immature. A disturbed or immature person would be attracted to your over-the-top reactions. So would a little bully. Try to get quiet and think for yourself: Why do you think he is doing this? If no answer comes yet, then you have to move on and decide how you want behave, who you want to be in all situations at school or in life. Either way, whatever his motives, tell him to stop (like you mean it), and then move on.

Another question is this: What can you start to do for yourself so that you do not allow other people to set you off so easily? Sounds like you could use some help. Why not visit the self-help section of a good bookstore and start to read up on and practice getting better control over your emotions? One suggestion would be a book called Don't Let Your Emotions Run Your Life. I'm sure there are others.

See if you can find a book you like also on dealing with obsessions or obsessive thoughts.

You might also want to see a counselor. In counseling or therapy you can learn better relationship and emotion/thought regulation skills.

Peace to you.

Hmmm... that sounds pretty annoying. What you could do is tell him to stop it all! and if he continues that you will ignore him for a week. Now, you must do what you say. Also, there is a way to continue without him annoying you, try to get as much work done as you can do, and then ask if he nees help, friendly of course, but make it clear that you don't want to do anymore then a friend/help. Give it a try.:)

He just likes you.

Its an odd way of showing it, but he likes you.

time for a get well card....

I didn't even read the rest of the posting, because I was getting a head ache myself. Honestly, you already know why the guy talks to you, and it's because he likes you. You've stated that yourself. Now, in my own personally opinion, you are making things way worse then what they really are. It seems to me, just by reading your post, that you are one of those young women who dramatize everything and everyone in every situation in your life. Girl please, getting mad at this man for talking to you should be the last thing you allow to give you a head ache. Ignore him!!! He only feeds off your response. Every time you blow up, and fly off the handle you give all the fuel he needs to keep going. He lives off the fact that he's going to see you and engage in some sort of communications with you. Ask your teacher to move you to another section of the class room and pay attention to your lesson. Word from the wise ....There are annoying people every where; and your going to run into many more of them through out life. But you won't be able to run from most of them. You'll be working with them, or for them or you may end up living near them. If you let everyone that annoys you get the best of you, you'll never find peace. And it may not be them, it may be you!!! They may be annoyed with you and do everything they can to piss you off and ruin your day. Get over it and stop whinging!!

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