Is he being selfish? And if so how can I communicate my feelings with him?!?

To make this as short as possible a list of events:
-Didn鈥檛 want me to sleep over because he claims he needed space
-Week later he broke down saying he wasn鈥檛 sure he loved me or not
-Next day he said sorry, and said he didn鈥檛 know what he felt that way, but that he knew he loved me
-A few nights later both our plans fell through, he said we would have a movie night then. His plans ended up actually happening, he acted torn or what to do, but then saw that I was bummed and so he decided to go with the movie night.
-I went over to his house to wait a 陆 hour for him to fix his iTV
-This weekend we were going to go party with some friends (he was going to drop me off at a friends place before meeting up with his buddies). Now he is wanting to go away for a weekend trip this weekend. He asked me what I thought, and I told him straight up I was bummed. I had some ideas for the weekend, and the fact that I was kinda relying on him for a ride made it that much more of a drag.

He knows all this and is still deciding to go. I am just feeling crappy鈥hat do you think of this situation?

i think while you may not like it some guys may need a little space it sounds like (which you might not like even more) this guy is a little bit moddy and may not know what he wants at times i think he shouldnt be changing his plans and deciding to go away if it conflicts with the plans he already made for you and you should just tell him that but remember he may need the space he may not

He either doesn't want you anymore or he's just a nutjob.

he sucks dump him

he's GAY for not letting you sleep over.

yeah it sounds like there is another women in his life and he is unsure of what to do. He knows that you are going to be there so he tries to be with her something happens so he falls back on plan b and that is you. cut communication sorry

I think he is just using you for when he wants you. You are wasting your time with this guy. He is making too many excuses not to spend time with you. This guy is just going to hurt you. Get out before you get in too deep.

relationships are a mess.
n people dont change really,
what you should be doing is askin yourself if u think he's the ryt 1 4r you,n if u see a future with him!
your answer will help u make a choice earlier,bcoz the older u get the lesser youre market value gets!!

are you a virgo? So am I
EDIT ( I ask because i going though the same thing right now) I have been reading my horoscope and they say it will come to past so dont worry to much) now i know im not alone

I believe this is a simple case of character problem on the part of your boy friend. Perhaps, his age could be a factor or other underlying personal problems that is hounding him making him uncertain on a lot of things particularly on decision making and making good his promises. Let him go and discover his own self and perhaps at the end of the day he will return with a brand new character you will appreciate.