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What is his problem??!!!!!?


My boyfriend and I broke up a week ago.
All last week all he kept telling me was he needed space.
I refused to give it to him...I admit I was a bit overbearing.

All this past week or so he has been playing games with me. One min. he wants space the next he's text message me telling me how "Hor*ey" he is. I am so confused!!!!

We ended up agreeing today that we would not talk until Thursday night and we would meet next Friday. I told him to have an answer for me if he wanted to continue our relationship or not.

He told me that was fine.

I LEFT HIM ALONE ALL DAY TODAY!!!!
I went out did my own thing hung out with MY FRIENDS
all of a sudden I get a text message from him stating
"I'm not gonna have an answer by Friday"

I was FURIOUS he said he needed space
I was giving him his space and he's messaging me and giving me a load of crap.

So, with that message about not making a decision I assumed we weren't seeing each other Friday. His response to that was
"Responding to your text notice I ONLY talked about making a decision not about meeting you so I never changed my actual answer...but now I am considering it"

Then we got into a little bit more of an argument. We agreed to see each other this Friday. He wouldn't give me any specific time of when I should come over.

My friend gave me 6 big packs of ciggs. for my birthday even though I don't smoke. He does and I told him I'd bring them over Friday.

NOW all of a sudden he's being really sweet and nice to me and stuff.

WHAT IS HIS PROBLEM!!!!!!!!!
I AM SO CONFUSED!!!!!!!!!!
and upset and just annoyed!!!!

Girl, listen to me. I was in a relationship just like that. The guy is a total control freak AND he only wants you for sex or playing around, whatever it is you guys did together.

Do NOT get back into a relationship with him, whatever you do. You will regret it. I know I regret ever meeting my ex! And when we were together, I thought he was the most amazing man on this planet. And then he started pushing me further and further away until I couldn't take it anymore. The only time he talked to me was when he wanted to talk about sex. So we broke up.

Tell him no, that you don't want to meet up on Friday anymore. Or talk Thursday night. Don't talk to him at all, just take him out of your life. You guys have been broken up for a week. You should be done with each other.

Stop talking to him and it'll make it all better. Hang out with your friends. You're better than him! Go flirt with some other guys and get yourself a real boyfriend cause this guy is an @ss.

ok, first of all how old are you?? it sounds to me like he is playing headgames with you. You need to make the decision, do u want to keep being played this way?? u said he txt a a horny message. that to me sounds like he is just looking for some sex, if he isn't giving you any answers you had the right to b overbearing. You wanted answers and u deserve answers. He doesn't need space he needs some sex and u might b there when ever he wants it. If you want to stay in a relationship where games are being played then stay, but i suggest that you move on.

This boy sounds like he doesnt know what the heck he wants. In all reality hes probaly more confused than you are! So give him the space he wants. Dont argue with him or hang out with him right away. You can wait for him for a little before he decides what he wants, but let him know you cant wait forever.

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