Does my boyfriend love her?

My boyfriend of a few months is very close to this girl that he met once and they have been chatting for the last 6 months. A mutual friend was asking him questions about her before i got with him.

He said that he feels a connection with her, that he can talk to her about anything. He tells me there only good mates but i know its different.

Why can he trust her and not me?

now i have heard that in the space of time he known me compared to when he known her he trusted her loads more than me. And that even at that period in there friendship he felt like he could trust her with anything.

Does he love her?

he has met her once and now they talk online on msn messenger as they lives in seperate parts of the country

For goodness sake talk to him. If you don trust him end it. Men and women are allowed to be friends though you know

i couldnt say weather he was in love with her but i think he has that close connection with her because they have a lot of trust have you given him good reason to trust you? if they only speak online i dont think you have too much to worry about guys sometimes just have comfort in someone when it comes to telling them there feelings i think best thing you can do right now is confront the issue with your boyfriend

so they are not even face to face..ummmm ur worried again about what?

wel for one thing he tells you about her, id be worried if he was keeping her hidden, if he loved her, he would be meeting and ringing her alot more then once in 6 months.

i think its a case of them being good friends, maybe your the one who needs to be more trusting

absolutely NOT..
good mates just friend not more..
u are the 1 more special not that girl..
for me, a perfect partner has a great differences
so, they need each other to make their life perfect...
but that particular girl is more common to your special 1 cause they have same interest & thought..
they just like to share things together not sharing love..

there is always trust issue's when men have female friends and equally when women have male friends. The trick is to talk and discuss it so that you can fell comfortable about it.even married couples dont tell each other everything.

whether they are just friends or not, if it's stressing you and you feel you can't handle it?
let go, let flow, plenty more fish in the sea. He's free to have whoever he want's in his life, but don't forget, so are you.

I think you need to have more trust and confidence in your boyfriend, if your really concerned talk to him, tell him what your feeling and ask him about how he feels about this other girl, for all you know he could just indeed class her as one of the lads, you know, a good friend :) You mind might be leading you astray a little, Chill out a bit :)