Please tell me why guys do this on a first date!!!!?

I have had a few dates that end up this way and I don't know what guys are thinking when they do it. I like to have my personal space when I first meet a guy. It's polite for a man to respect personal space or at least ask permission before he touches my thigh, holds and masages my hands (I had to forcably rip my hands away from one guy who was going to town on my hand!) or gives me a kiss.
I like handshakes if I am meeting someone for the first time. I'm sure there are some women who like the close contact and some who initiate it but I believe my apperance and my mannerisms demonstrait that I am not one of those women who enjoy instant intamate contact! I'm very reseaved, even prudish.
Guys! Please tell me why you think it's ok to do these annoying things without asking if it's ok first? (I don't want to lump everyone together I just want to know what the guys who do these things think)

Because guys don't like prudes lol.

usally guys do that to impress a girl on the first date so they can have more dates and spend more tim with you

I actually blame society and gender roles. Many guys think this is the norm to behave and thats what they do. I personally shake hands and don't hug until I'm possitive there is some type of connection, after that I always ask.

Plus some girls are the same way to a different degree, they give too much too quickly.

i personally never touch a girl on a first date. your right, its way too soon.

Any guy who behaves like that on any kind of date whether it's the first or last date, is a creep / jerk !!! You should have acquired enough discernment by now to be able to spot a creep b/f even going on a date with him. Something tells me you are not picking up on the red flags these creeps throw out; you are overlooking the signals they put out. That's why you aren't picking up quick enough on their bad behavior. Wisdom on your part is what is needed. It will come with one too many dates with a guy like this.... hope you don't have to get raped to know where to draw the line and set your boundaries. Be sure you have enough pocket change to call a cab 'n get home. You may need it, hon.

You're hot. You are spraying pherimones like a blown radiator. We are not responsible for our actions around you, it's a chemical reaction. I apologize on behalf of the rest of my species.

I never initiate physical contact on a first date. The idea is that you are there to get to know the other person in order for the relationship to progress. Some people just don't understand this concept and those same people obviously have a terrible time trying to read the body language of other people.

U need to get out more girl.....how old R U anyway??

It's not uncommon to kiss on a 1st date. It's not even uncommon to kiss the day u meet.

But it's 1 thing to touch someone when it;s wanted, and a whole different game when it's not.

If a guy does that to you, he's inexperienced and can't tell that ur not ready for it yet.

But....If a guy came along and said all the right things to you and pushed the right buttons, not only would u want the physical contact....you'd be begging him for it. You would maybe even initiate the kiss yourself.

The problem is, you just attract the creepy inexperienced guys that probably drink to lower their inhibition so they can talk to you. Problem is, they can't control themselves after that.