I need BFF help!!?

My bff just made the softball team at our school, which is cool except for she keeeps talking about how she is soooooooooooooo busy and doesnt have time for anything. Then, we had a girl scout meeting yesterday and she callled to tell me she "totally spaced about it , but she is soooooooooo busy with softball" (which she made the team THE SAME DAY!!) She did the same thing for our basket ball !
she wont tell me anything!!!
she is friend with this super mean girl who is making my life mierable, and always tells me everything that mean girl says about me. i dont know what to do, she is driving me crazy!!!!!!!

Maybe she is telling the truth. Maybe she is just busy with softball. But the way she's talking, I don't think that's all. I think she's maybe trying to worm her way up the social ladder. You need to pull her aside SOON, and ask her "Can we talk?"or "Is something wrong?" If she's not avoiding you on purpose, those three words can tell her right away that her behavior is having a bad affect on her relationships. Tell her that she's been acting differently lately, and that you don't feel that she's appreciating you as a friend. Ask her what's going on: Is she really just busy, or does she not want to be your friend, or is she just having a hard time socially right now and is trying to find her specific niche? Maybe she'll respond honestly, and talk about her problems. If it ends up that she doesn't want to be friends, well, it'll hurt, but let her go. A friend who doesn't like you is worse than no friend at all. If she says something like "No everything's just fine!" smile and say "Okay, just checking." but take it with a grain of salt. At least she'll get the hint that she's acting weird.

get some new friends, or hangout with someone else that your already friends with. she obviously dosent care how you feel. just saying, i had a friend like that when i was in 7th grade. that was long time ago though

dont say "we arnt friends anymore" to her, just do what she does to you, say your too busy.

she is not ur bff then. Say ''If u wont talk to me we are not friends anymore''

Im sure there are tonnes of other gal pals out there you could hang with. You dont always have to stick to that one certain person. You can have tonnes of friends. and hang out with all these different people and have a great time.
she seems like not a true BFF. but i dnt know her so i wont judge but still. talk to her and have a chit chat session about whats going on. if she doesnt talk make her. it needs to be sorted before it gets wrose trust me. let her know how you feel and if she responses in a bad way she is not a true friend. but if reacts as if she wants to save the friendshipe and find a solution than you both are true BFF.
friends are people who can trust, talk to, hang with, have fun with, laugh with, gossip with, get along with and mostly someone always there for you no matter where or who there with. they would do anything for them no matter what.
some people can be blinded of how badly a friend is actually treating them until someone gives you a smack bam wake up call. you need someone to give you that wake up call sister cause if two dont sort it out. you'll start the water works soon and no one wants you to start that. talk sort and decide. :)
hope things go well and this help.

Get new friends. You just have different interests. Nobody's wrong or right - you just are going different directions.

i dunno why she's acting dat way but talk to her abt it, if she still does the samething then i guess u should do the same to her like if she says do dis and dat for her, tell her u r busy too.

you know what? get new friends, cuz a "BFF" isnt supposed to do that, ok? LEARN!!!!