I dont like him...?

My 2nd cousin from my mom's side came to our place to stay here til he get a job but i just hate to see him walking around in my house.He just like everywhere.Then i just stay quite and feel so stupid in my bedroom.I'm not trying to be such a annoying person or what but i just hate to share my space in this house with someone i never met b4.What should i do???

Instead of just sulking in your room, thinking about how much you hate to share your house with a distant relative, have you ever tried to talk to him? It might be a little hard at first, but would you really rather feel annoying and stupid than just resolving your issue with some hardships? You don't have to get too friendly with him, just feel okay knowing that he's not a stranger.

drive him away. worked for me.

Take charge and walk around where you want when you want in your house. If anyone should be feeling shy, it's him.

IGNORE HIM

well like u can try getting 2 noe him... then u might not hate him as much or... u might just have 2 wait til he moves out...

I agree that would feel really weird...i suggest you tell ur mom how you feel about this 2nd cousin you've never met before....maybe she can do something about it! :)

i understand how you feel.....
i experienced that before...
well, you just need to get used to it..
you need to convince yourself that he's your relative and he needs your help since he's looking for a job...
it would be kind of you to be good at him, right?

try to put yourself on his shoe..
what if he was in your position and you're the one in his situation....

good luck...

Why not help him find a job?
Find out what he likes to do. Then find out if he is good at anything jobwise. Then help him look on the internet and in the paper and in the area he is interested in. It will be good practise for you some day and you will have nothing to lose but him.
Good Luck!

p.s.what about grocery stores or the cable company?

I know it's hard to adjust but maybe the right time will come that you're gonna accept your second cousin, and i think it's better for you to be more understanding and open minded for that issue and you'll be use to it soon.

its your place. do what you want. who cares what he thinks. and plus. if you feel awkward around him, just go up to him and say hi. that'lll make you feel a lot better. trust me. its what i did when y bro in law stayed with us.

I'll be freakin MAD too if it was me..haha...i mean why be quiet in ur room?Dear...start doing annoying stuffs to get him out of that house!do it baby...Drive him MAD to Drive him AWAY!

Sometimes in life we have to make choices that we necesarly don't like and have to put up with a little.. I would suggest speacking to your mom,about how you feel,about your cousin invating your space.. (if you will) But don't explain it rudly.. Explain how you feel,with a calm voice,and tell her exactly what is going on.. maybe she can find a space for him,or you guys can work thins up,compermise is the key here.. You both have to come to a place where you and your mom,or cousin can agree,and you both feel ok,about that certain decision.. I hope I helped you out.. Hope things get better.. : )