Emotionally unavailable man - I pushed the issue he asked for some time apart to think?

We have been together one year - yet he has not evolved emotionally and he pulls away when i come closer to him. He chased so hard for the first 2 months....then when I started to settle and show that i wanted more the pulling away started. He sets the tone of the relationship - when we meet and don't meet.

He is a commitment phobe and when i have hinted at going foward he throws all sorts of ridiculous issues in my face.

I also think he still is emotionally involved with his ex and he sees her when he doesn't see me..I feel this and there have been signs...sms's phone calls etc He feels sorry for her - she is much older than he..

I don't know what to do i am hooked and can't seem to walk away from this man. He has told me that he has fun with me feels great with me but will never give me more than he does now..he says he doesn't ever wnat to get married and never wants kids

Can this type of man ever change? What can i do?

Should i just act aloof with this space thing

How can I play him at his own game? By also acting aloof? By two timing him?

Ah, this man is toying with you. You have a decision, you may either leave him, or you can play him at his own game. If he is so cryptic, then you may adopt his attitude as well. He will perhaps be intrigued by this and you can garner his interest. But that is your choice. Do what your heart tells you and you will be successful.

He's playing you, walk away while you still have your dignity and your sanity. Find someone who appreciates you.

He said it. He is having fun.
Do you want this for your future?

If you have been together for a year - then I would definitely say he is playing you. If you suspect he is still involved or feels sorry for his ex, why are you with him? You are allowing him to keep that distance from you - maybe deep down you are protecting yourself as well. If he changes, it would have to be a change to suit you - that isn't going to happen, especially after a year of what's been going on.

he won't change, trust me. any way, no point in committing anymore is there? the way eveyone just busts apart...

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