Avoiding the rebound...is she worth it?

i met a girl over christmas and we hit it off instantly. I have been single for a long time and i am kind of closed off and protective of myself. The chemistry we felt immediately was very strong. we spend the next 3 weeks texting and calling very frequently and the connection grew stronger . however, we live 10 hours apart and she just ended a year long relationship. i went to visit her a week ago and it was great, until we were partying and i expressed to her how great it was we had so much in common etc...she agreed. the next day after talking a long time with her girlfriend she told me she wanted to back off and slow down a little as this was moving too fast. i kind of agree, since i was getting a little carried away too. i get the feeling it is worth it to slow down and see where this goes. after all , she is just on the rebound and i dont want to be "that guy". should i just give her some space? i'm willing to give this a shot cos i feel this is special. should i just keep i cool

HOLY CRAP!!!! WOW!!! I am actually going through the same thing!!! WOW!!!

I asked a question kind of the same on here too, not as detailed but maybe I would have gotten better answers if I did. Reading this I jumped out of my seat and I just had to respond.

Anyway, I want so badly to give her space and slow it down because I am getting out of hand too. I also do not want to be "that guy" or end up in the friend zone. The girl I met is really special too & I plan on giving her that space she needs. Others will say she is using you and to move on. I say DON'T! Stick with it and I think in the long run it will work out for the best.

I don't like that her & I don't talk like we use to but I hope this proves to her that I am in it for the long haul and how special she is to me.

I wish you the VERY BEST OF LUCK! Keep your head up! It will all work out!

Long distance relationships rarely work out.

like you kind of agreed, slow down.that's it.

Listen to your heart!