Can anyone help me out please?

I started dating this 29 year old women who is divorced and has a 2 year old son named Jacob, I am 23 but very mature for my age. When we first met neither one of us thought anything was ever going to get serious between us but it did soon enough, we were spending every night with eachother and I think she liked me much more then I liked her. Things were near perfect between US but she had lots of problems, she takes anti depresents and drinks and aparently those things do not mix well, she cuts herself with a razor when she is sad (I believe she does it for attention), and she is diagnosed bipolar, these things were always a concern of mine and she always told me how i helped her and made her so happy. We broke up about a month ago and I have tried everything to get her back, and all of a sudden the sweet, caring,loving girl that would of done ANYTHING for me has turned into another person, she pushes me away so bad and is so mean to me all of a sudden saying that she needs space to

fix herself. I am really hurt by this whole thing because I have been with her thru thick and thin. I know that there isnt another guy because I know the guys she is interested in wouldn't put up with her problems, and her brother told me there defiantly isn't anyone else. So we went a few days without talking and I called her and asked if she wanted to hang out and she did and from Friday - Sunday I was once again the greatest guy in the world and she "loved me" again. So I thought things were getting back to normal. Then a few days later I called her in the morning and she told me that I am being to needy and she doesn't like talking to me because of it. I was incredibly hurt because I was there when she needed me and I wouldn't dream of saying something like that to her. So she ends up changing her phone number and I havent heard from her since. I love this girl and her baby Jacob so much and

You are going up against steep odds with this woman. A lot of her problems are beyond your capacity to handle and are better suited for a professional. Don't think her problems have anything to do with you. You have done all you could, and don't beat yourself up over it.

I'm sure you can find a beautiful and sane woman who will appreciate what you have to offer.

It sounds like an unhealthy person is putting you in an unhealthy relationship. I don't mean to sound cruel, but you better high tail it out of there.

Unfortunately, if a person cannot or doesn't want to change, there is NOTHING you or anyone, short of a psychiatrist, can do to help her. Sorry!!

This is a tough one - that sounds like Bipolar, but for an accurate diagnosis, get her to see a therapist. The cycles she is experiencing wax and wane, and there is nothing you can do accept be there for her.

she's nuts. run away as fast as you can & never look back. a life w/this woman would be just one incidence of craziness after another. save yourself the pain & move on. find someone w/out all of those issues; you deserve better.

To be honest, you DO sound needy
Let it go........
if it's meant to be, you;ll know

You know its meant to be if she tries to get back in contact with you. You've done everything that you can, man. You just gotta let fate handle the rest.

She is demonstrating classic bi-polar characteristics. It's up to you if you want to stay in her life.

Move on..........Start new.............stick to your own age......don't be in a hurry.

Run for your life!!!
I mean it. You are letting yourself in for a lifetime of tantrums and arguments. Even if you feel that you love her......RUN! do not walk to the nearest exit!!!

She is very lucky to have someone who cares about her so much. However she will end up destroying you if you let her. Her medication is not working because she drinks. She will not be that sweet loving girl that you love untill she makes a decision to manage her illness and do what the specialists have advised her to do. If you want to help her she must agree to want to be well. If you want to support her, accompany her to see a psychiatrist or other mental health professional who will help work out a treatment and recovery plan to help her lead a normal life. Do not be frightened by her illness, look at it as any other illness such as high blood pressure. Her son also needs a supportive, well balanced mother. If she will not accept your support, protect yourself and look elsewhere for the love and affection you truly deserve. I hope there is help for her son too. All the very best to you.

the thing you are forgetting is she is BI -POLAR. she is UN-stable. and if she not taking her medication well she wont be rational. especially if she drinking alcohol. a person who is BI-POLAR. experiences very bad mood swings. so you got to take all this in to consideration.