Roommate Problem..HELP!?

Hi,
I live in a suite that accommodates 10 people..and I live in a quad...so there are 4 ppl i share my study room/bedroom with..My roommates had problems with my using a certain kind of lotion, the food that I kept on my table for long periods of time,the amount of space I occupied and the make-up I would sometimes accidentally spill in the bathroom..and there was this one time when I accidentally opened the shower curtain when someone was showering inside...Well, the major reason behind this nuisance i caused was I was Really busy with my classes all week since the beginning of winter quarter...and the shower accident took place cause i was not well that day so i didnt realize someone was in there
However, I DO admit it was my fault..i was causing discomfort to my suitemates
My question is,..
we had a suite meeting today and i didn't even know there were certain things about me bothering my suitemates until they kinda blew up at the meeting...in FRONT of everyone else..

i mean those ppl who were not even bothered by me
Don't you think they should've personally walked up to and politely related to me the stuff that bothered them instead of using phrases like "i wud've beaten the **** out of you if i were inside the shower in place of X " and "there are other lotions avlbl in the store if 'the person' isn't aware of"..
i mean it wasnt even a direct confrontation...i knew they were referring to me...do u think this was appropriate? i felt so embarassed and shocked coz i thot evereything was going pretty ok...i had no idea they were having problems..n they said it was bothering them since the middle of last quarter...then why DIDN"T they personally confront me then??
I'm really depressed..n feeling lonely
is it just me? or was what they did appropriate?
PLEASE HELPPP

Their behavior was absolutely inappropriate. Several years ago, I was under the illusion that college girls would be mature in a living situation, but some of the stories I could tell you about my college dorm experience would pale this in comparison. I'm sorry that you're having a bad experience... are you able to live off campus next semester? E-mail me if you ever need to talk.

if they had a problem, they should have come up privatly and told u. u should tell them that. i cant tell u how they will react to this, but wut they did was wronge

they are not real women.If i had a problem i would have come to you.They were wrong to do that to you.you need to let them know that if there is a problem they need to tell you not other people.