I was dating this girl for 10 days and she eventually comes to my place and we end up having wonderful ...?

conversations and understanding each other very well.
Although we always hug when we meet or say goodbye, but I have never kissed her, that鈥檚 because I wanted to act like a gentleman and give her space and time to make the first move herself, but I am afraid she might as well be waiting for me to kiss her and found this offending that I just sat back and didn鈥檛 initiate a move.
We were supposed to meet on Friday morning but she didn鈥檛 show up and then left to her home state for this past weekend. On friday I gave her a call to see why she didn鈥檛 show up but as of today she has not returned my call. So what鈥檚 going on ? how do you interpret this situation and what should I do to fix this ? I don鈥檛 want to call her again because she hasn鈥檛 returned the last one; on the other hand I just don鈥檛 want to lose her this easily. We were having very good time last week and I am kinda confused what might have happened.

Give the girl a call. Take a chance. Regret or "If only I would of..." will eat at you like a dog on a bone if you don't take the time and give this woman a call. Leave her a simple message alluding to how much you enjoyed your date and you were just calling to see how her trip/week has gone. If she does not respond, at least you tried and know not to make the same mistake twice. Give the girl a call.

make a move man, shes begging for it, hit that

you waited too long to kiss her!

Definately should've kissed her. She stayed at your place for that long without making excuses, that mean GO FOR IT. duh.

Most girls want the guy to make the first move. If I were her I'd be upset because I'd be thinking "why hasn't he kissed me, he must not fancy me"

I'm the same way as her. Being patient is great for what it is, but we all want that kiss. The groping and begging for sex is so unnecessary. But a kiss means you're attracted to them and want them.

Wow.
nice man.
be a gentalman:)
but she could also be waiting for you to kiss her.
if she stares at your lips while your talking, she wants to kiss you. As for not meeting you, well, girls are different then some guys, we dont just "blow" people off like that, if you two were having a great time together, and you felt a connection, the yeah she obviously lieks you and there must be a REALLY good reason why she didnt show up on the friday, as for the phone call. im not too sure about that, but hang in there bud :)
hope it helped :)

Maybe something happened to her...
Or maybe she doesnt like you?
I k im not helping.
But uh I cant really think of anything else
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you sound like a nice guy tho

Man don't just sit back go for the kiss!! MAKE THE MOVE!!! I don't know about other women but I love it when a man takes over. Good luck darl.

you kinda blew it with the whole first kiss thing, but I appreciate the fact that you were trying to be a gentlemen. You should ask out on a date when you see her at school or w/e. But if you can't wait that long call her, maximum of five messages dude. Other wise its kinda stalker ish. Now go, sweep her off her feet, and make this thing work.

xoxo
Mandi

mayb she thinks u'll nvr make a move an is jus plannin on movin on.

I want to give you a quote that will help you out for the rest of your life.
"He who hesitates, is lost".
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You lost your chance my friend. She probably thinks that you do not like her, so she decided to cut it off and pursue other options. You should never wait for the girl to make the first move. In this world we live in, it is usually the guy who is expected to initiate. If you would have gone for the kiss, at least you would know if she liked you the same way. Now you may never know.

she might think she misinterpreted your signals. give her a kiss next time you see her to let her know where you stand.

Don't call her again but once she calls you back question if she's alright. Tell her that you'll make it up to her and ask her on another date...then make your move, you'll be fine if you're relaxed and don't worry about what happens afterwards. Don't go straight for a kiss though! especially if you're at you or her house. work your way to get her comfortable with you, and if she seems reluctant with that then don't go for it. But if she's coll with it than you have nothing really to worry about.

Hope this Helps!

Maybe you should have asked her if you could kiss her. It never hurts to ask. If she said no you would be no worse off.

no one should just wait for the other person. You just make the move when the time is right. You will know it, and so will she.
Don't call her, but give it one last shot by doing something romantic for her, like bringing her or sending her flowers, or her fave book. Then see what happens
but don't over-think it too much. We can never get inside someone else's head. Just one more shot then move on

If a guy doesn't make a move, it will really confuse me and give me the signal that he is not interested and I might be wasting my time and emotions. Usually girls expect the guy to make the first move. It is wonderful really that you want to be gentlemanly.....(and dont ever stop being a gentleman) but...a point comes where u have to take the risk. Isn't love worth it? Dont hold back anymore. I am not saying to make a very bold move. But u could start with very little things....like...say, when u r sitting, just gently hold her hand. Or give her a little longer hug. Or look into her eyes more romantically and a little deeper. Or sit really close to her and put your arms around her... these are all gentlemanly. As long as she isn't pushing you away. If in doubt, you can always ask "May I......". That's very very gentlemanly. Next time you meet, go for it. Don't delay this any longer, else it might be too late.

EDIT: Give it a few more days. If she doesn't reach you, then give her a call. How about sending her some flowers.

Don't go overboard in your affections though. Keep doing something, but spread it out. Pace yourself. Go slow. But don't let her think you dont care or have forgotten about her.

I wouldn't waste so much energy on it.This sounds mean,but have you thought about the fact that maybe you were just someone to pass the time away? Go on with the way you normally are and when you see her again in passing or what ever...just say "Hey ,whats going on?" as you keep walking. She is putting the fear of loss on you and you could be making her wonder about you....just like you are her. ITS NO BIG DEAL.Tell yourself that and portray that in your attitude.