I am dating this girl for 10 days and she eventually comes to my place, we end up having ...?

good conversations and understanding each other very well.
Although we always hug when we meet or say goodbye, but I have never kissed her, in an attempt to act like a gentleman and give her space and time to make the first move herself, but I am afraid she might as well be waiting for me to kiss her.

So my question is : how do I initiate a kiss ? like at what time, or situation, should I ask her ? or just do it ? should I start off with a romantic talk ? I want it to be spontaneous but I don鈥檛 know how !!!

"start off with a romantic talk", if this is needed, what words are good to use. please elaborate on your answer

See, this is what my biggest pet-peeve is about modern man. We have confused the definition of being a "gentleman" with being a pu$$y. Women don't want a pu$$y, they already have one.

Listen, women by nature are soft, emotional, caring creatures; men by nature are hard unemotional, seemingly uncaring creatures. Men seek women who are soft and caring, not women who are demanding and take charge.

Men are naturally better at leading than women. Who ever came up with that whole 50/50 nonsense needs to better understand primal man and woman. Is the work load between men and women split in half, yes; but not how the adage goes.

Listen, like I said earlier, be a man. If you keep pussying around and just hugging her, sooner or later you will cross into the "friend" category. You don't want that.

If you want to be a true gentleman, keep her in the back of her mind, let her know that you're interested in a life with her, get a good job, work damn hard, get "secured" (financially, metally, physically) and then ask her father if YOU are ready for his daughter. He will decide if you have done what you need to do to take care of his little girl. If he agrees, then you can pretty much bet that you've done right in life and are ready to take on the challenge of a relationship.

See, you probably just want to kiss her. You probably have no intentions of settleing down with this girl. How in the world is that being a "gentleman"? I don't see anything wrong with kissing girls, dating, having sex, yada yada yada... just don't use the word gentleman.

Man-up and kiss the girl for christ's-sake. Worst case scenario, she pulls away. So she's not ready, try again when the moment feels right. If she still doesn't come around - ask her about it. See if she's into you... or if you've miraculously crossed into the friend zone from pu$$y-footin' around.

Remember, being a "Man" is not the same as being an asshole. It's about being confident and knowing what you want. There's not a girl out there that can say they don't like a man that takes charge.

Good luck to you...

first question... you just do it when you both aren't talking. ur having a quiet moment. second questions... well i answered that... but DONT ASK HER JUST DO IT! that answers ur third question too... dont start with romantic talk... just do it when your both sitting there being quiet

Just come out and ask her, Look her in the eye and tell her you want to kiss her, she might like it.

well you should no if she wants it wen u look in her eyes wen yous are talking and yous both stop and thers nothin to tlk bout look into her eyes and move closer if she wants it she will move closer aswell

next time you are saying hello or goodbye to her give her a kiss on the cheek and see how she reacts to it.. it might be all she needs to get it started..

Just catch her gaze and looking into her eyes. Its almost magnetic. Shell move closer and youll move closer. and before you know it you'll be kissing.

=D

Just kiss her. She will either let you or push you away. Just do it!!!!

Well your beyond Gentleman,grab her and swap some spit man, before she finds someone that does!

no dont do a romantic talk. just go for it. wait how old r u???

just talk 2 her for a while then look in her eyes for a big then if she looks away keep lookin at her then when she turns back go in 90% of the way and kiss her
if not 90% go in 100% and jst go for it

GUD LUCK
(she probobly is thinking the same thing)

Hahaha - "in an attempt to act like a gentleman"
That's code for, I'm a ******* pansy. You HAVE to man up and kiss her.

Just be close to her, and the moment WILL come. Don't fret it, don't ruse it and most of all... make it a moment you'll love talking about.

just spontaneously and make it wet and sloppy

when your hugging her, and you are looking face to face, try looking at her chin then back to her eyes, then move your head slightly towards her and if she wants to kiss she'll tilt her head to the right most likely and you then tilt yours to your right, and the rest take place

A romantic talk is always good . first tell her how you feel and ask if she feels the same way, ask her if shes ready for the relationship to advance to the next level assuring her that you won't do anything that you both aren't ready for but you find her attractive and would like to be her guy.

dont worry im sure she want to take it solw or she waiting for you to mae the first move

Just do it!!!!