Im I doing the Right Thing By saying GOOD BYE- Men What do U thinK???

I have was going out with this man for 1year and things were really good we loved each very much but I had to break it off because I find that things were extremely complicated. He was planning on moving overseas because he wanted to live over there with his family and because of a career change not just that I was 20 and he was 31 my family did not known that I was dating him. I always told him that I would be willing to move over there with him and that I would do what ever it took to make it work out. He said no, because he did not want me to get married at a young age and because he thought that it would be even more difficult to leave my family so we both decided that we would stay as friends and that we would just give each other some space
After so many months he asked me out, I said no and he got upset with me and stopped talking to me so I just left it at that. nevertheless a few weeks ago he asked me out again and he said that he really need to see me or if we could just hang out I said yes because when I first meet him he was my friend so I said that it would be like old times but before I even went out with him again he asked if I would take things further like have sex but I said no because I wanted to wait until I was married he got really upset and said that he known that but he just didn鈥檛 know how to control these feelings and that this was something he wanted he didn鈥檛 want to just date even when I made it clear to him that I just wanted to be friends so now I have just blocked him out all together why is he doing this and Im I doing the right thing! I still love him however; I do not want to be used like that鈥?Any ideas鈥? thank You

see girl u cant make urself free frm love but u know u r toooo good coz u dnt hav to hang out vth him keep it up n stay away frm him but stay in touch vth ur lover to whome u love in ur heart ..
physically now he was not well for ur precious love but in ur heart he will stay forever n ever as ur dream lover n if u wanna b happy listen to ur parents n do wat they say n also share ur prblm vthh ur parents coz they always favour u n aways give u gud advice n rest of that m vth u coz recently i hav faced bluff in my love so if u hav a little space in ur heart for me then m coming to stay in ur heart... its ur wish but listen........ always b happy always coz we dnt how much is our life but u can enlarge it


make ur life big dear ...........................

The only thing he wants to do is get in your pants..don't see him again.....

Yes, yes you are. You are both a different stages in your life. He is probably thinking about settling down soon, whereas you are far from that. He also has needs you can't meet due to your own personal beliefs. Find someone at the same stage in life as you are to avoid another complicated mess.

well tell him the truth

You are absolutely right. he is not loving you at all. so why to think over it again and again?

Hi girlfriend, Don't worry any man who thinks the way he does is immature and a potential user. You're worth much more than that. Do you really want to be friends with a "bwoy" like that, come on girl, you will find someone eventually who really knows what is love is. You may have to kiss alot of frogs before you get your prince. You are still very young. Good hunting.

Hate to blow up dude's spot but, yeah he probably is saying he's moving away, just to get you in bed. And even if he is moving away, why would he just want to sleep with you and leave. You are young, get yourself over this without interrupting your life and then move on. Finish school get a great job or internship.....live your life first for cryin' out loud.....

P.S.
kudos to you for abstaining........