Do you think she'll come back to me again?! need opinions!?

I was with this girl for two years. We got extremely close emotionally, amazing chemistry, had a special bond that we both said we'd never seen anything like before. We had some of the best times of our lives as well and I was always very good to her. We're 25 & 23.

She moves home an hour away for financial reasons, meets a guy in town and leaves me for him. She's with him for 2 months, until she comes crawling back to me a few weeks ago. She tells me this made her realize how great we really were, how much she enjoyed being with me, how much she loved me, how she couldn't wait to move in together, maybe get married someday. She leaves him and we spend two weekends together,everything goes well, just like old times.

Then a switch flips, shes having second thoughts, doesnt know what she wants, doesn't want to try it again, etc. Just as fast as she came back, she is gone. My heart is bleeding, it was great to have her back! If I give her space, will she come back again?

Ok if I were in your shoes I would sit her down tell her how you feel about her then tell her that you are willing to give her some space for what ever it is that she needs to figure out. But also let her know that you are not going to wait around for ever. Plus make sure that she knows that you are not going to be the guy she falls back on when other guys don't work out. Give her a little while to think about it like a month then move on if she doesn't come back. You can love after love.

Give her space. If she comes back and you want to try again, good. If she leaves, then good. Do not move in with her or let her move in with you. Right now, she is thinking some other guy out there is a better one than you. She just hasn't found him so don't move in together. It's much more difficult to walk away when there is a lease with both of your names on it. Sit back and see what happens without making any kind of commitment to her. She may turn out to be some other guy's problem in the future.

alright, well i can tell you that she honestly doesn't know what she wants. i would give her room for a little while and if she doesn't come back then i'd talk to her because you don't want her to think that you've completly forgotten about her anyways. well if she's happy with who she's with then leave her alone and she may change her mind later but if she doesn't then move on because she evidently has too. it's all about what she wants right now and you just kind-of have to give her space for a while.

I GET TWO POINTS FOR SAYING TTTITIIIITTES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I not really sure what will happen (I can't tell the future, sorry) It could go either way she could come crawling back to you again, or go crawling back with the other boy. Hope it works out for you, Good Luck!!!

she doesn't want to make a mistake, and thats okay.

to tell u the truth this one is really hard. i would just give it time for U to heal. if she comes back, well, if i were u, i wouldnt do a thing. id turn her away. she will probably keep doing this over and over again until ur hurt so very badly. if u want to be able to find someone who wont do that to u, and that u love just as much and maybe more, then u have to let her go. im sorry.

Sometimes feelings change.

I was with a guy for 2 & 1/2 years and just got sick of him. I told him I "didn't know what I wanted" just so I wouldn't have to hurt him.

But, he went all stalker on me... Sometimes I miss him until I think about how many times he drove passed my house, almost got me fired for calling me at work...

Things must have worked out if he would have just GIVEN ME SPACE.

So if you give her space, the chance is very good she will come back.

But if not, then she won't.

And if she doesn't, then it just wasn't meant to be. I know that is the SUCKIEST saying in the whole world. But it's true.

if she hurts u like this is is obviously a big %$^&*.

Yes, she will come back....and leave you again. Understand, she is manipulating you. Next time, she will tell you the exact perfect thing again, use you for a while, and leave you again. You deserve better. You will have to let yourself be angry at her, and realize that she is NOT the person you thought she was. She is dishonest and selfish...you don't need that.

Hoo-boy....tough one. Your best bet......love her unconditionally, tell you're around if she realizes she misses you but that you will go on with your life. Then do it. Embrace your friends, explore your interests, maybe even find a passion for some hobby or avocation that grabs you. And date if someone cool comes along. And love and treat this ex as a FRIEND as best you can, praying every day to whatever Higher Power you have for the strength to do that. And see what happens. Trust me, I've lived this one. One way or the other, it will work out. It will not be easy, but if you can do it, it will make you stronger than you've ever been.

sounds like this girl has a-lot of trouble figuring out what she wants. i would say giving her space is what is best because then she will know your not pressuring her to come back an she will realize that she needs you as you need her and say if she decides not to come back to you at least it will be easier for you to start the healing process because you accepted the fact that you might not get her back by giving her space
~best of luck and i hope it all works out for you~

She hasn't a clue what she wants. Give her some space and she'll sort her head out. She must have been having doubts to leave in the first place. I wouldn't rely on her too much .

man she left you hight and dry f**k her!! do her like she did u and leave her alone!! shes about to hurt your feelings twice do it to her and make it even!!

hi my name is miss yoyo and let me tell you i been in a relationship like this before i met my husband i was in love with a man name leroy and my nose was so wide open that if he was to say walk down the street with no shirt on i would proudly and all of a sudden he needed space he had a female friend and two months later here he comes back he was dumb and stupid and we worked it out and then bam the same thing i took him back a total of three times to get hurt when you love some one you go out your way to make it right and you can never say that you didnt try from the heart and experince that was a chapter in your life close it move on and deal with some one who wants to be with you and dont let her play with your feelings that is what she is doing you are better than that remeber that it hurts but you'll bounce back you will move on baby you'll be just fine take care ok yolanda please move on

Things aren't always what they seem
when that perfect one comes along you will Know it, there will be no question at all. no breaks in the relationship it will feel better than before.
But What I'm thinking is this chick Needed a place to stay and she knew you would be more than happy to do what every she needed. Be Thankful that she is gone. but You must take notice of what actually happened between you two.Take it as a lesson learned
The right one will come to You

yes, she come back againe and live you again and again and again and....
I offered you to let her go and forget her for ever.