Were are going to meet for lunch today?

I really think she leaning toward giving me another chance though she does say she needs time to think about things and she is undecided but I printed some things off the website about marriage should I take them and show her ? to discuss them before or after we eat ? she says she is not trying to hurt me and I believe her I'm just in love with her and I want to spend the reats of my life with her if she will have me I'm trying to give her the space and time to decide but if she does not choose me sure I'll be hurt but what else can I do ?

Maybe you can just mention some of the things you read in the articles and mention that if she would like to see them, you have them. I think that would be better than showing them to her and appearing too pushy. I feel for you in this situation. I admire you trying to save your marriage and hopefully she will admire that too. But, sadly, as much as you would like to fix this, the ball is in her court. Just be sure she knows you care and want this to work, and that's all you can do at this point. And don't forget to pray.

Don't show her any "Marriage Stuff". She needs to decide what she wants to do. If you push too hard, she will Run in the other direction. Good Luck !!!

Here is some advice from a girl. Don't take the marriage papers to her. Bad idea, as she will feel she is being smothered and it may put her off. Take it slowly. If she has given you another chance that's great, but hear what she has to say first.tell her how you feel, but without saying youwant to marry her.Give it a few months until you bring up marriage.How long have you been going out?
Approach marriage by dropping it into a conversation, and how she feels about it, then maybe go window shopping with her for rings. Find out the ones she likes, and make sure you get the right size, then take her out for a lovely dinner, or somewhere that is special and holds good memorys for both of you, and ask her if she will marry you.

Hope this helps from one who is engaged herself

I don't know if it would be a good idea to show her the marriage articles right now. It may be a little too soon for something like that, but hold onto them. They might come in useful later on, and maybe you can learn something from them yourself that could help, anyway. I don't think you should put too much pressure on her now but just be your nice, pleasant, thoughtful self and maybe when she sees how patient and loving you can be, she will be ready before long to return and try with you to make things work. It sounds to me like there is a lot of hope for that! Good luck with the lunch date!

Blow her off and find someone that will love you for what you are, not what she wants you to be.