Is it better to give her space or chase her?

I put a question on here about my ex yesterday, loads of helpful answers, thank you.

We are meeting up fairly often, she broke up with me a while ago.

I am getting mixed signals from her, sometimes she is very flirty, gazes at me etc, but she sometimes pulls away when we get too close. Very mixed signals!!

Some people thought she just wanted to be friends, some thought she was interested again but unsure as to my intentions.

I would like to work towards seeing if it can work.

Is it best to ring her again asap for another meet up, I can read the signals etc OR is it best to give her space and let her call me, or if she doesn't call in, say 5 or 6 days, call her???

Ladies in particular, what would you think is best??

Thanks for the answer jet-set. I did already sort of do that.

I did date someone else briefly and when I told her I was seeing this girl my ex wanted to meet up "as friends". I ended it with the other girl, nothing to do with my ex, she just wasn;t me!

In my experience, if you really want to get her interest again, make her jealous! Get on with your life, start dating other girls, and be cool with her.
I bet she'll come running. Whether it'll last in the long term, is another story.

I did exactly the same thing to a guy... that was just because i was lonely and had no one i can love for... but the guy really liked me... so i know i can use him as a company when i felt lonely
since i didnt have the same feeling as he felt to me... i will move away when he got too close.... coz i didnt have a special feeling for him

If she is really interested in getting back together with you then she will not need space. She needs to see that you are treating her properly, meeting her when you say you will, and having a good time together. The more those things happen, then the more she will trust you. Call her today and ask her out and to give you a chance to prove to her that you are a changed person. If she says no, then you will just have to accept that she isn't ready to try again.

If you really know what you want, you know what to do to achieve it!
In your case the best thing is find the time to sit down and talk openly/honestly with each other, so you both know where is your "relationship/friendship" going and clear the mixed signals to avoid the future confusions!
And maybe then start from beginning... dating and build up a happy full-filling relationship!

Sometime it is nice to give a space to each other...to have a little time alone too!
And it`s great when you know somebody loves you, trust you too!It can be equal!

All the best!Good luck!

sorry but it seems as though, BOTH of you need space to figure out why, and what is the reasoning behind your feelings.

EDIT:
As for the jealousy thing.... that's just child's play!
Only one who is already jealous and not content with self would attempt to provoke such a reaction.