How can I keep my girlfriend around I know she loves me and I love her but she is always stressing for space?

Ive caught her lying about very stupid things. And she tries to lie just to get that space. It makes me feel bad because every1 around me says im a good b/f but it seems like no matter how much i try she always wants to be with her friends. As a b/f I don't care that she wants to be with her friends and spend time with them. But it almost seems like she'd rather be with them then me. Does giving her her space really mean days or weeks at a time? I love being around her even if we dont do anything. And when she asks me if she can stay at her friends houses I never say no. She also has this problem with me meeting her friends. When I only want to meet them and get to know them so I can trust them. I guess I just want a surefire way to win her heart back. but not overwhelming her can anyone help? Many people have alredy said let her go and if its ment to be she'll come back. But I just feel like if she shows any type of affection to someone else it will just break my heart. Please help me

do smth nice to her and if she doesnt respond to u find someone else! hope u have luck!

I think the best thing you can do if you really want to be with her is give her the space shes asking for. It may suck because you want to spend more time with her but give her the space she wants for a little bit and see how it goes. If shes a lot happier with her space tell her you're willing to give her what she needs but you'd like a compromise where your needs get met too. This means finding time to be with you as well, not JUST her friends. If shes in her teens it definitely explains this because almost every study ive seen on this has said that the number one thing of importance to teens are their friends. Give her her space but then tell her there has to be compromise.

people are right.
its the only way.

Just because she needs her space doesn't mean that she doesn't love you - - some individuals need more space then others, nothing wrong with that. Let her have it, it's completely healthy - - do not smother her. This will make your time together a lot more valuable! Good Luck!

i love thee, so you can be free, even from me..........
this quote tell it all I guess.

From your side of the story it sounds like she doesn't want to be with you but doesn't have the guts to break up with you.

You need to break up with her and find someone else that appreciates your great boyfriend qualities.

Don't make her ask for space. Try spending some time with your guy friends and suggesting that she hang out with some of her gf's. You can't smother someone all the time and expect them to not want space. I've done the same thing in a past relationship and thought I was just being a loving bf who wanted to be together as much as possible. I realized I was a little overprotectived and not giving her enough space. If things are meant to be they'll work out, even if you give her a little space. If you give her a couple days a week to hang with her friends she probably won't want to take a week or so break either. Trust me, been there. Good luck.

You have smothered her and now she wants her freakin space. Move on with your own life and start dating... going out and having your own fun. Find some sort of hobbies and some male friends to go out with... No one wants a clinging relationship... its like a vine that wraps around and kills you. Its no wonder she needs to get away from you.

your heart will probably be broken then... its time to stop denying it. if she is not interested or less interested in spending time with you then your friends its time to tell her how you feel. if nothing changes she will be gone in only a matter of time. shes useing you until she can find someone else to take your place. so for example when she has no one else to hang out with she always has you and when her friends are available your never the one she calls on. it looks like she's getting ready to jump off your boat and on to someone elses. i would know because i jumped from guy to guy from the time i was 16 to 19... i was an... jerk... for being some unresponisble and immature and so is she... its time to stop seeing what you want to see and see whats actually there...

Hey can you see the light at end of the tunnel. You're keep for convenience, she's ******* someone else. I can't believe your that gullible. If you ever marry this woman she will likely be screwing around town. Find a new life dude.

Sweet heart that is life. She doesn't seem to want to sacrifice anything for you but want you to sacrifice everything for her. And relationships are all about sacrifice and compromise, communication, affection, etc . She wont even let you meet her friends should tell you something already. Your friends are right if its meant shell come back. Either lay out some rules and be the MAN of the relationship and continue to deal with her crap or find someone better. Your worth it just as much effort as you put in! Don't take her lies for love. When you give her -her space tell her that's exactly what it is. And find someone who will love you like should be loved. Take the risk, you only live ONCE.Be happy and regret nothing. Good Luck! God Bless

love for friends and love for someone special is a different kind of love.. they can never occupy the same space.. you can't say you dont care that she loves to be with her friends.. because you should care for her whatever she does.. and also, you can't keep her around.. a girl never wants to be kept around... excuse me for this part.. "i think you should work on to be a lot more exciting boyfriend to her"... always plan ahead of your meetings.. dates.. and know more about her interests... jive with her.. make surprises to her..(girls love surprises).. i think nowadays, being happy just being around her is not valid anymore.. maybe you are happy.. but what about her? and don't make friends to her friends just to win her heart back.. make friends with them because you wanted to. in that way.. you being with them. and she being with you.. p.s. ( don't expect someone to love you as much as you love her, it would never be equal, thus, love her with all your heart)