Follow up to she needs space?

So my fiance said she needs space and gave the ring back and cut everything off. she said she just wants to have fun and she just got her firts job and wants to stand on her own two feet like i have been able to. I can accept this but she went out with another guy and stayed at his house. She said he is just friends and just met him at work only a week ago..She did say he likes her but he is just friends. She says to me that i am the greates she has ever had and i have been perfect but she just needs time and she is not replacing me and give her space. I have and she left a message sayin do you hate me and im sorry. what do i do? Have i lost her? do i need to move on?

Dude, your over reacting. She's just making sure that your confident, secure and not needy. Remember, let her know that you want her, but that you don't need her. Don't go running back to her and start telling her that you don't hate her, I would actually wait just a little while, before calling her back, let her wonder why your not calling her back right away. Did he find somebody else while we were apart? Is he actually forgetting about me? Make her keep wondering why your not returning her calls like every other loser would do right away. Use this to your advantage, tease her about her wanting you back and not giving you your space that you require.

I don't know if your actually getting what I'm trying to tell you. But in plain simple English, your being tested, and if you go running back to her, you could lose her, because you will come of as Needy and Insecure. Take control of the situation, so far, I only hear you crying like a little girl (No Offence), did I lose her, what do I do? The other guy, he's probably part of her test, to see how you react. Go out with some female friends, let her know that your not an object, that she can put to the side, and pick up whenever she wishes. Let her know, that your giving her the opportunity to be with you, and if she doesnt take advantage of it, it's her lose.