My ex and i are meeting up to talk?

OKay..so I already explained what happened with my ex on another post. Basically to sum it up..we dated 2 yrs and was very seroius. but i messed up. I took out a lot of anger on him because of my previous hurt relationships which eventually crushed him. He stayed patient but as 2 yrs went by, he finally blew up at me and we had a huge fight. HE said a lot of hurtful things about how much he hated and never wanted to see me. it just went back and forth like that for about a week. I finally realized i needed to give space so I told him I would give him a month to calm down. Its been a month now and i gave him a call. We made small talk and he sounded nervous but He said he was still a little bit upset. He doesnt really know what to say but he was willing to meet up with me to talk and hear me out. Does this mean that he is thinking of working things out eventually? WOuld he meet up with me if he really didnt care or have any feelings?

The same thing sorta happened to my and my bf not long ago, we were together just under 2 years.... we didnt actually split, but we didnt make any contact with each other for over a week as we were both very mad and upset....but when we did talk everything worked out. i got called alot of hurtful things.
He probably said horrible things because he was mad, we all do it, and most the things we dont mean, it's just how we feel at the time, and we want the other person to be hurt and suffer..so he probably didn't mean what he said.
if he wants to meer up, then he obviously does want to talk and try to sort things out!
just dont bring up what he said untill everythings sorted, then ask him if he really meant what he said.
And if he doesnt want to hear you out then he's not worth it.
Dont worry too much about it, he wants to meet up to sort things out!!
Good luck, hope it all goes well :)

No, he would not meet up with you if he doesn't still have feelings but that doesn't mean he'll take you back either. Honesty is the best policy so be as honest as you can and whatever happens, happens.

He's meeting up with you because he does still care but that doesn't mean that he's willing to try again with the relationship.....You just need to explain why you blew up and that you were in the wrong and u wanna try again....and see what he says

may i suggest pistols

and i will second you

he likes u still but is still not over it, help him dont bk off he needs YOU to fix it.

Sounds like you both need to sit down and talk things out. You both need to change if you are going to make your relationship work out. Don't bring up things that have happened in the past, leave them there and start all over with a new beginning. I wish the best to you because it sounds like you really love him. Go for it

no one just switches off after a 2 year relationship...but please don't think a miracle is going to happen. go for counseling to help you sort out yourself...otherwise history will repeat it self!

I personally don't think he would meet up with you if he didn't care. If you are going to pursue another relationship with anyone. You need to get help with whatever happened with your past relationships. If you don't, You will not ever have a happy relationship. Only my opinion. Good Luck

looks like he is willing to be with you but his fear might be that u might not have changed. So he wants to be careful before he gets hurt again by the attitude u showed last time. SO first have a check on urself and then u can be sure becos the only thing that seperated u and ur bf is that anger of urs so the ball is in ur court

i dont think he would meet up with you if he had no feelings but dont get your hopes up just ask him whats what good luck.

He wouldn麓t meet up...(But every head thinks different!)...When the feeling is lost we say, "I don麓t think we should do it or try". or "it has no sense" or whatever to make you understand that is over.. The best position is go and asume you are the listener...So you won麓t have surprises..
And make clear to you,,,what you want from this relationship...make commitments..start again. First read between lines,,,listen when he talks, I would let him talk first!...
Maybe he麓s afraid of going to the same old place,,you know What I mean...same troubles,,,Let him see you as a different person,,,if you really want him back..And that other "committed woman" will talk,,(you)
You never mention that you want him back, or love him..But first af all, go with your heart and mind believing that you deserve to be happy and make him happy as well and hope you are ok!:..