Dating issues....How much space do I give a girl I just started dating?

1. I really like her, first girl in a while that i really feel a connection with.
2. been on 5 or 6 dates
3. I feel like I call her more than she calls me
4. We haven't slept together
5. She is really quite and I think could be overwhelmed really easily.
6. We met through a good friend.
7. She is in her late 20's

So here is the question, I really like her but I am not sure how fast to move things. I would like to start becoming a bit more serious, but I do not want be too aggressive. I am normally a lot more assertive with women, but I am a little bit more reserved because I am super attracted to her personality/looks. I want to give her space but I also do not want to seem overbearing. For example I texted her this morning saying I had a good time last night and she never got back to me. So I am wondering whether I should call her tomorrow or wait for her to call me. Am i over analyzing this?

Making out and feeling up comes before sex. You did not say if any of that happened, so not much of it did, or you would already know how she feels.

She could be confused by your slow pace or think you are being a wimp. Or, maybe she is not that interested and just enjoying your money and attention until she lands a better catch. Probably, she is dating you and another guy.

It is time for you to
a) be more manly, and
b) find out how she feels.

Stop the wimpy messages. Let a couple days pass. Ask her out and have a plan for a fun date with some action in it, like miniature golf, a hot air balloon ride, or dancing, followed by a little alcohol (wine) someplace where you can be alone.

Then follow the steps that almost every couple follows before their first sex:

a) arrange to face her directly face to face when you talk to her. Enjoy the conversation.
b) synchronize your actions (drink when she drinks, look when she looks)
c) touch each other
d) kiss and make out
e) have sex.

Skip any of the steps, and no sex.
But you will have your answer by step c) touch, or d) kiss and makeout.

If the spark is not there, stop dating, stay on good terms, and go find a girl that really wants you.

You are overanalizing all this. It could have been just a mistake about the text message. Give her a little space but not to much. Let her know you want to become more serious. Tell her how you feel becuase communication is the key to a relationship.

spend a quarter to half your day with her
buy her a promise ring and your good for the full day!

follow your instincts. do you think that you are more into than she is? if the answer is yes, back down just a little. allow her to contact you and follow her lead.

Hope it works out for you!!!

You are overanalyzing this. Give her space, and give her a few days to wait. The next time you call her, have a date planned. Don't call her as much as you do, try to focus more on spending time with her in person. If this girl is as attractive as you say, she probably has guys falling all over her, and being needy and clingy is an unattractive trait. Give her space, call her NO MORE than once every three days. If she starts calling you more often, you can answer and talk to her for a little bit.

When she's ready for things to move on, she'll start sending you signals by calling more and being more available. Don't push her.

she likes u but she doesn't want it to be more than that, if she loves u, u would have seen and felt it. not replying Ur call is a very bad sing. so good luck

You have been on 5-6 dates with her. If she didn't have an interest it would have ended after the first or second date. You have spent a lot of time thinking about her and her personality. If you care about her you are learning how she responds to you. What you say, what you do. Since this is different for you, treat it different. The questions that you have asked, you need to ask her. You need to be vulnerable. You can share your feelings with her. That is where the vulnerability comes in. She may tell you something you don't want to hear. She is probably used to guys that want sex. Hold off be different. Don't make it a priority. She will pick up on what you say and do. She will begin to believe that you are different. Respect her boundaries. If you become intrusive you will turn her off.

no over analysts whatsoever. they are valid questions :]
do you think you could let her know that you feel a very strong connection to her, not similiar to previous relationships? tell her specifically what makes her so special to you. you dont have to continually call her to let you know you are interested in her. maybe coy~ly
send her a hallmark card in the mail. maybe a emailed ecard? maybe an occasional small gift / token like a small stuffed animal , a bottle of perfume, something in her favorite color, a beanie baby, a flower, etc. show her or give her signs she means a gr8 deal to you. sleeping together will come. i think she needs to feel more comfortable and trust you more since it is a new relationship. so dont dive into the sexual thing just yet, eventhough you may want to. hold off a bit more on the sexual stuff. not that she is overwhelmed so, but i think a bit more shy than you realize and she may have in the past gotten really really hurt and she may not want to take that leap and get hurt again. being hurt sometimes hurts so much it is hard to evn get into new relationships with someone. she has to build her trust factor in you first, then things will slowly progress. i think mainly she is fearful, that is all. nothing major. and she may not want to just dive into things because some ppl who leap, the other person leaps away. if the other person feels a little bit more emotion sometimes they dont want the tad bit of rejection they may receive. aggression is not the key. tenderness and being supportive to her is the key. and you are very attracted to her and her looks which i think is a very very special and nice thing to feel for a girl. =] it is not 'giving her the space' thing it is just taking things a little bit more slower until she can catch up to you? see what i am saying? sometimes ppl are busy and they cannot return messages, dont get offended by that. it happens. if you want to call her tomorrow - make sure you know her answering machine is on. leave a brief message with something your comfotable saying, maybe i just thought of you and wanted to let you know i was thinking of you.....(nothing specific with details or long dragged out words.) she will see you are interested but didnt do it in an overbearring way, you see> cool, huh? just pure suave. so, my friend not over analitical at all. if you would like to personally email me, you can, and i will get back to you with my opinion(s). i offer that to you, and i will add you to my contact list as well. good luck, you will do fine... just take things slow and the rest will follow! :)

I think you are over-analyzing. If you're dating, that means she likes you, so stop being obssessive! (; As for how fast to take it, if you're unsure, let her make the move!