Please help(I NEED MORE SPACE FOR MY PROBLEM)?

when i entered 1st class of my graduation I saw this beautiful girl, at that time i thought its just an infetuation,than some months latter she started paying attention to me but only if we met outside college that pushed me on back foot(I dont know why?), so I delayed askin her. but than in the final year of my graduation on my last day at college I was little drunked than i was talking about her to my friend and he told every thing to her, and than from nxt da she stopped even looking at me , than i sort of forgot her, but there was something else written in fate , we met again after 3 months and than we talked a lot , but that was not the suitable time to ask her out again, and than i moved to another city, after 3 months there i found her there and this time she asked me out but she told me to hide this thing from one of our common friends (this is different guy), but i couldn't. so she got angry with me I almost begged but no use, after a year she moved to another city.

and after 3 years i found her, i called her on her birthday she was surprised and than we talked daily, but she than told me thar she is engaged and will be getting married soon and now it was my turn to move to her city i went there but she refused to meet me , we used to talk for hours on phone evn she now a days sprangly chats with me, but is not ready to give me her new number. it hurts so much , I feel she lied to me about her engagement .

tell to this to ur friend and tell ur lover that u didn't tell him and I think that there is no way tohide from friend or lover I think that we can tell lies for good things asnd go first to Ur lover and tell her that u will not tell him and try to convience her