Self improvement and space can it get your ex back?

I will be seeing my ex this week, which we have done a couple of times since our break 2 months ago.We were together nearly 3 years.After our meet I am going to not contact her for 1 month unless she calls me & in that month I am going to work hard on self improvement which I have already began to do and I have a driving test booked &have a deposit on a car.
Do you think if I go at improving my life like crazy that I can draw back my ex to me so we can eventually get back into a relationship because she just wants to be friends?

When we were together we had a lot of pressure around us due to my mothers terminal illness which I handled well but just caused silly little arguements which were magnified.
So do you think I have a chance of her changing her mind if I don't contact her for a while?Because even though we have been split for 2 months and only seen each other twice I have been in contact with her for every one of the weeks, so I don't think I have given her a chancetomissme

I am also going for councilling to sort out silly things I have noticed about myself that I don't like, so when I say self improvement I mean, mentally, physically and in my life style.

well fi i were u id try stop calling her for awhile and tehn just call her up and be nice and friendly no flirting dsont even mention u love her still and shell coem around if somethign is for you ti will be for u k best wishes

Not sure where she's at right now with her feelings about you. Because no matter what the situation is, it's not like only self-improvement on your end will make everything better. Maybe it will! If the main problems she had with ou were not driving and your not having a car, then maybe they will be different this time around. But if you just pushed her much too far last time and she's ready to move forward, she might just want you as a friend and no more. You have to do things becuase you WANT to do them, not just with the intent of getting her back. If she's not in the same place as you are, just accept it and manage to move forward. Be thankful that she watns to be your friend still!

If she is telling you she just wants to be friends she has probably moved on. She just is too afraid to tell you. Also, a dog dosen't return to his own vomit so we call people ex's for a reason. Move on start a new chapter in your life you might find it to be more wonderful than the last.