Is my space cheating when you're seperated?

My boyfriend and I have an abusive relationship. I moved out and now I told him that we can be friends and maybe try again in 1 or 2 months depending on his progress...I know that the way things are now I cant be with him but I do care about him. I have recently started on Myspace.com and now I feel bad because he tells me that he doesnt want me to meet other people...what should i do

Well, he's not you husband, so I really don't think anything online could be considered cheating anyway. I also think if the relationship is abusive you shouldn't get back with him without counseling together. But no, it's not cheating at all, because you're seperated, so have fun, he probably is.

No it is not cheating, but you should be careful because someone will come along and tell you everything that your "boyfriend" wasn't telling you and trying to work you into their arms and bed and it may work w/ you being so vulnerable. so be careful.... also my friend told me this and I live by it. No man is worth your tears and the one that is won't make you cry!

Tell him that you're sorry that he's so insecure and move on.

P.S MySpace is not cheating it's MySpace!!

Go meet other people he won't change. An old saying You can't change the stripes on a zebra.

If you feel guilt in your heart, you're cheating. We don't know his side of the story so I can't really give you better advice than that.

You're not a couple, so both of you are free to do as you like. I doubt one or two months is going to change someone's abusive behavior, and him telling you he doesn't want you to meet others, shows he's trying to control you even when you're not a couple.

Don't walk that abused path again...he's not going to change in that short a period of time...

But no, to answer your question if you have online accounts or date other people right now, you are not cheating...however if you were really interested in getting back together with him, those things probably wouldn't hold much appeal...

your single arnt you. do what you want and if its an abusive relationship, i would suggest staying away all togather. he wont change, sorry but its the truth.

You cannot cheat on someone when you and him are not together. Since this is an abusive relationship you really need to keep it moving. Love doesn't hurt. Move on.

It sounds as though some time away from any intamite relationship will give you time to make yourself stronger which is more important for you right now. Though there will be desire to have someone there in your arms try hanging out with your friends for support instead. Not untill you're self sufficient will you know what YOU really need and want. And dont let him whine about it either. If he wont give you your proper time for yourself he doesnt respect you enough.