Do u think we just need space and time away from each other?

okay me and my girl been together for 2 years and we just recently broke off the relationship due to problems and we both made mistakes in this relationship and i love her to death and we had been living together for one year and she has a child that is 2 years old but the child isnt mine because she was already pregnant when i met her. We had been getting into arguements alot and im 22 years old and she is 20 years old. And recently we got into a big fight and i end up saying some bad words to her and her best friend( a mistake that i regret) but it seem hard for her to forgive me and we are both moving into our own apartments and i dont want to lost her and im hoping that time apart will help out relationship even if it mean for us to see new people and hopefully we both will realize how much we need and miss each other,because i feel im a good man, im going to school(college) and i dont smoke or drink and i have never been to jail and im not thug,and i dont and never cheated on her.

Jon and I are married now but before we got married we had the exact same thing happen to us...He moved out of my house and we spent time apart but continued to talk daily. I have a daughter that is also not his but he continued to have visits with her and took her to do things. We were separated for a few months and now we are married! That is what it took for us to realize that we needed and wanted each other...

Good Luck to you
Jennnifer

You need space right now...if its meant to be, both of you will realize how much you guys love each other.

yes it looks like time and space is all you need for rigth now

theres a saying
if you love something set it free if it comes back it was meant to be if not leave it be.
My ex son in law said alot of hurtful things he says he didnt mean all it did was chase her into someone elses arms give her a chance to cool off. good luck

Communication is vital... even at this point in your relationship. You both need to sit down & iron out these differences & come to some kind of understanding & compromise. No 2 people are ever alike & even some will disagree far more easily than others. You both need to decide what really needs to be argued over. If the things you are arguing about are trivial, then both need to just let them be. Life is way too short to be constantly fighting over things which have no real value or meaning to them. Instead of arguing, you both need to calmly sit & discuss the issue at hand. Perhaps counselling for the both of you would be beneficial as well. Forgiveness is also key in a relationship. You first have to forgive yourself before your partner will forgive you... & they need to come to terms with it. People make mistakes & it takes a strong person to be able to forgive.. a much stronger person to forget. It's kind of like a defense mechanism. If you hurt me, I'm going to remember it for the next time you've got something coming to you & then I'm going to pull out all the stops! Though in the thought process, we don't actually say those words, but inside we do. So, find out where the both of you stand in this relationship, where you'd both like it to head & what you're going to do to get there. It's not a plan, per-say... but it's an idea as to whether or not there's a relationship to build upon.