Do you men want chasing or space?

Met a guy.....really nice. He calls and text me quite a bit but I have a thing about whether I should wait until he has contacted me before I should reply......I don't want to seem over keen...or under keen. How do you guys like us girls to play this? Been dumped not so very long ago and self confidence a bittle low I guess but I would hate for him to think I am not interested

I'm a guy who likes straight forward honesty, today's society makes us believe we have to play these 'hard to get' games, If you wanna get back to them, go with your heart and act how you feel you want to act, this way you will find the person who values you for who you are and not who you pretend to be in fear that you may seem too keen. GO FOR IT!

We want chasing until we are caught.
Then we want space to go out with the lads.

There is no one answer to this...and that's what makes the whole 'dance macabre' so fascinating!

The world is an imperfect place....embrace it!!!!!!!!!

make him want you bad. hint about you wanting him to the point of no return. let it loose.

Say what you have just said to him.
Good luck!

stop been silly and get in there or he might think your not keen on him and might start feeling he has made a mistake

He wants to be chased

What I want, and what I need are not always the same thing. If what is on offer is what I need, then it really is not important to me whether you chase or ignore. Neither have a particularly big impact on the eventual outcome.

Work out what I need, and then if you can offer what I need then why wait? If you cannot offer what I need, then don't waste either of our time chasing.

Why would you hate for me to think you are not interested? If I offer you what you need, and you offer me what I need, then your interest and my interests are matched. I will know you are interested if I know you, regardless of what your actions are.

Of course, if you wait and there are others whose interests are matched with mine, then you will need to find another target.

Depends on our moods, both are ok. Its perfectly ok for you to text or ring him though once its been a few days since you last talked, nothing off putting about that.

thats a really good question, but i dont think that any girl on the planet knows the answer to.
in my situation, this guy wanted space but then he was the one that did all the chasing, got what he wanted and then ignored me, so i am guessing that he wanted his space back.
if you find out the answer, please let me know