How can i get him to give me a lil space....please help!!!?

ive been with my bf for about a little over year and we now live together. and i cant seem to get time alone. the problem is its kinda my fault i think for his insecure ways. see i had a bf when i met him but the relationship wasnt going anywhere so i decided to leave my old bf and be with him.but now i feel like he's constantly on me. he doesnt have his own car so i take him to work in the morning and pick him up after i get out of work. so i never have time for me. when i want to go to the store he comes with me. i hate it cause then when we get there he rush's me. even when i go to my families house i feel like if i tell him im going he automaticly assumes he's going. and yesterday i wanted to buy him something for xmas but when i said i was going to the store i got the third digree, where u going what for..ect..how can i get him to understand that i need alone time sometimes.with out him thinking there's something going on???i dont go out anymore im always with him..please help!

I think he is waving some HUGE red flags!!

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Get out, move out, kick him out, get a restraining order, do whatever you have to do to get this guy out of your life. Do it quickly!

Good luck!!

Honey, you're just going to have to sit him down for the old heart to heart talk. There's no way around it. "I love you but I don't need you up my @ss 24/7."

Some guys are like that. Theres really very little that actually works to prevent it. Pretty much either the guy is like that or he isnt.

The only way to tell him is to talk to him. No beating around the bush and hoping that this issue goes away. If he is overbearing, dump him. Everybody needs time to themselves.

first mistake is living together, guess you are lucky he actually has a job otherwise he would be a total loser. explain how you feel and if he does not get it now,he never will

is awesome you sound like a guy

just tell him i need space because(insert y u need space). and it might work,lol

**you know what...the day he does give you alone time you won't want it...trust me...but i understand...you should make him feel like there is nothing to worry anout...only if there really isn't n-e thing to worry about...now tell him that you have beeen faithful to him, and that you are not about to mess up your relationship with him, but that from time to time you need to beath a little bit...ask him for permission and let him know what time you'll be back at...stuff like that**

Lots of females fall into the trap of being "the wife" when they move in with a boyfriend. This is a relationship problem with committed couples but can be handled delicately if you care for him. Encourage him to take on a hobby-like fishing, or something that involves other guys. Eventually he'll find himself wanting "guy time" to compete in his new hobby.

Hmm the good thing is you understand where his insecurity is coming from, that means that you really love him and understand him. What he needs to understand is.. For your relationship to grow to the next level, he needs to give you time to build physically and mentally by yourself. you should tell him that if he wants you, he needs to learn to trust you, and that what he's doing right now is going to bring the relationship down. Love is based on communication but without understanding there is no trust.

i think u should talk to him and let him know how you feel