An ex-gf delimma dilemma. :+( . Should i get her space or show her how much I love her?

My first gf, we have been going ouy for 2.5 years until last month. I met her when I was a junior,she was a senior. Well,I ended up in a long distance relationship with her when I ended up out of state college. We both knew I wasn't going to stay. I wanted to come back after the first semester, but ended up delayed until the end of the second semester that was ending in may.She had told me from the start that she did't want a long distance relationship but we decided to try it anyway being so into each other.Well, in april she went to vist family in Switzerland for two weeks and ended up cheating on me.She told me over the phone after she got back. I forgave her and all that. I didn't want to lose her. Especially since i was to be back in a month. so close jeeze. Well I didn't finish my second semester, but rushed back in april. I was so devestated at this point. I drove two days strait from ND to CA.I couldnt sleep for a week prior. Ineedtogetherback. Westillaregoodfriendsandtalk

I have an ex like you and three years later he still has not given up.
Give her space or you will ruin the friendship and there will never be more more. If she does not want you back at the moment do not make yourself annoying.

TRUST ME the best thing you can do is prove you respect what she wants. Good luck I hope things work out between you but don't push it too much, what happens happens and although you think you could never ever love anyone else, with time you might just find out that you can.

you're going through a process of learning that infatuation and emotional dependence just don't work.
stop chasing her, she has her own life to live.

girls know what theyre doing when they cheat even though they might regret it later.if she wants you back shell let you know.all you can do is just tell her how you still feel about her and hope for the best

i think that if she cheated on you she wanted to see if she really did have feeling for you.
some girls do things like that as you both was in a long distance relationship she wanted to see hoe she felt about you.
i think that you should ask her out for dinner and talk to her and tell her that you still have feelings for her and see how it goes from there.

How long were you two together before you had sex? Was it longer than 2 weeks? Here is a girl that only knew a guy for less than two weeks and knew that she would never see again but she decided to have a casual bang with him anyway. She did it on purpose. She wanted you to break up with her. When she told you that she didn't want to have a long distance relationship, that was her way of trying to break up with you. LET HER GO! She's done everything she can to get away from you.

I suggest you get your butt back to that college of yours and take your exams and see if you save this semester. Hopefully your profs will understand.

Remember this and let it be a learning experience. You will find the right girl for you eventually.