How do i get back her trust, have what is important 2 me & make them understand i need some space and freedom?

I am a white female 18 & i like a black male 19. I wanted 2 take my time & have him come around my parents as my friend before i told them anything more but i ended up having 2 tell my mum. She tells me she would rather i date a white guy but isnt telling me not 2 try with him. Yet everytime i talk 2 her about it she seems as though she hates him even though she doesnt know him, nor does she seem to want to. About a year ago i lied about being with him but i have come clean on that lie. & this was back when we were still just friends. I understand my mum doesnt trust me now & her concern She wont let me go somewhere with him or meet him until i tell my father who is rasist. They are very overprotective. I know my mum doesnt want me to become a loser like most ppl in my town but he isnt & im not trying 2 screw up my life Even if they tell me i cant see him anymore i still will but i dont want it to come to that They want whats best for me, then why cant they just be there & support me?

well, they are entitled to their opinion. They don't have to like him, and you don't have to listen to them. So, now, I would tell your father about this great guy, and all of the wonderful things about him. Don't bring up his race. When you bring up his race, your parents think 'why did she bring that up? for the shock value?' Ask them what they are scared of, and reassure them that is not the case. But if he's just a friend, why do you care? You will never change how your parents view the world. But maybe, someday, you will understand why they view the world the way they do. If it gets to the point of wanting to date him, move out on your own.
also, you chose a difficult relationship, so now you will have to be stronger. one of the reasons, I'm sure, that your mom would rather you chose a white boy. It will make your life more difficult and parents always want our lives to be easy

HEY YA MAMA ROCK LISTEN TO HER SHE WANTS YOU TO BE HAPPY IF YOUR CHASING YA OWN TAIL YOU SHOULD LOOK FOR SOME BIG DREAMS DEEP IN YA OWN HEART FOLLOWING YA HEART MAKE IT CLEAR OR YA LOSE MAMA HEART BE HONEST WITH YA SELF

Time will settle this--you will in a short while understand far more than you think you know now--It is always amazing to me how so many people want the support of the ones around them in the life they have choosen but are totally unwilling to give those same people input into any facet of what they're doing--as soon as this guy is gone--and he will go---you'll be asking why someone didn't say something--trust me here--on this you can rely

Because your parents were taught a certain way to react to blacks or other minorities(more your father then your mother being he's an admitted racist) Most societies are okay with the fact that people want to date other races but most do not see a black and a white as a couple, mainly because of the stereotypes that others(as well as the race themselves) have made. You may think your decision is the right one but your parents will make it difficult for you if you pursue him. My advice to you, don't bring it up to them because you are not going to change their minds on him, if they hate they're going to hate him more once you start bringing him around or mentioning him.

If you are very sure he is a good guy then go ahead be with him. If your judgement is wrong, then your parents will say "I told you so". Only you will bear the consequences for your wrong choice. So choose well.