I was in relationship for 2 years now he says i'm smothering him and he needs his space. He denies cheating.

I know he's doing him I've acused him of cheating many times,he said he's sick and tired of the acusations. He claims he's chillin I hardly see him. He's pretending he's with his boys. Girls we know better than that. Been there done that. A lot of times he doesn't answer his cell, I know he's with someone else. He claims he's older now and is no longer seeing a lot of women. He wasn't ready for a relationship when I met him he said that I kept bugging him so he tried it out I guess so that I would stop nagging him about taking things a little further. I have to initiate the love making and affection. It's been that way for two years. Alot of times he doesn't even want to have sex. Like a little bi atch alot of times he says no. He lives with his momma. He's stayed with a lot of women, he's afraid of commitment he always ran back home to him moms.(Momma's Boy) I asked him if he wanted to move in with me. He brought a few things over only to take his **** back to his momma's.

Hello,

I have to start by saying that if he doesn't want to be with you, you shouldn't want to be with him.....Sounds like he is not ready or seriouse about you and your relationship. You can't force him into something he may not want. Be good to your self, love yourself and honor yourself. Find that guy who will live everyday to be by your side and to wake up next to you. There are a lot of people out there. Don't be afraid to look. We never know why some people are afraid of commitment or maybe he is not ready for you. Who knows, we do know that even after you have asked him to share your home, he is not ready for it. Don't continue to wait on him. move on.................he did you a favor. Now you can walk away knowing you tried to talk with him and you tried to love him the best you could. nothing wrong with this. You may be more women than he could handle..........

Good luck and get out there, there are lots of guys who are ready for the right girl with her own pad and a job! You are worth more than this..................

Cheers-

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