8 months ago I broke up with my bf of 4 yrs because he needs space and he wants me to move on and find?

someone else. It was hard for me because i was so in love with him and never cheat on him. But I moved on anyway, I met a guy a month after we split, and we were so in love, he's very nice to me and made me really happy. We even enganged and planned to get marry asap. 6 months after my breakup, my ex begged me to come back and said that he's ready to marry me. I chose my ex instead of my bf because I've known him for a long time. I married my husband without telling my bf. Im married for 1 month now, but I keep thinking about my bf that I left behind. I still seeing him and I feel that I am happier with my bf instead of my husband. Please help me.. finally my husband found out how I feel, because my bf called him and tell everything. He wants me back. So confused.

My ex is has no kids (I have 10 years old boy) he smoke W**d every single day but financially secured, my bf has a good job as well but he got 3 kids: 12,15 and 17. Im a lot happier with my bf :(

What a complete mess. I don't think you ever should have gone back to your so-called "ex" (I hate that word). However, it's too late now because you're married.

Of course, liberals will tell you to get a divorce to be "happy." That's also wrong.

If your husband has an affair, you could divorce him. Otherwise, you need to stay with him.

I KNEW IT! BEFORE I EVEN FINISH TYPING SOMEONE IS TELLING YOU TO GET A DIVORCE! NO WAY!

If your husband is faithful, you need to remain married! DO NOT LISTEN TO THE YAHOO ANSWER LIBERALS!

And another one below saying "do what makes you happy." Wrong advice.

All this being said, you might want to separate based upon your wrong decision. Again, if your husband becomes unfaithful, which I predict he will, then you could get a divorce.

1) Get divorced
2) Be single for at least a year
3) Grow up
4) Make a decision.

Having a boyfriend is one thing, you shouldn't have just gotten married even if you did know him for 4 years. Now you need to divorce your husband and stop ties with him then be single for awhile until you can make a mature decision. Maybe later on you will work out with your husband.

wow that is confusing, Ok so you are married to your ex but still dating your bf, and your bf called your husband Well I'm confused. All I can say why did you married your ex you know he might do this again and again, you should of married the bf and not your ex base on how long you know the guy. But that's me it sound like maybe you are regretting your decision just do what makes you happy.

Enter a convent. You're too ditzy to date.

Well it looks like you screwed up...... You should have never took the loser back...... You didnt know he smoked weed everyday around your ten year old son? I find that very hard to believe. You are just trying to find excuses why you should leave that man and go back to the other.... Your first mistake was even getting engaged to your boyfriend after you broke up with the loser.... after 6 months! You know its okay to be alone and better yourself for your 10 year old.. What kind of example are you setting for your child. You have no idea what kind of damage you can do to your son, letting him see you with different men every six months. He is gonna think that all women are like you.... Get some self esteem and leave both men alone.... consentrate on your child Mother!