Do I tell him the truth, now that our relationship is better than ever?

A while ago, when my boyfriend and I were 'giving each other space', I met someone else. My boyfriend knows about him but he doesn't know that I slept eith him, I lied.

Do i tell him the truth? The guilt is getting to me.

you should girl..how hurt it takes you should be honest. .if he loves you realy he must understand you and accept you the way you are. .cause you can never felt a real happenes if you're living in lies..what if because of your honesty he'll love you more and it lead you into a happy life with him..

I'm going to toss two cliches at you.

"Honesty is the best policy."

"The right thing to do is always the hardest thing to do."

You decide.

Yes, tell him the truth please!

tell him, but i a nice way
if he frecks let himm he will be lettinb off steam

thats a normal girl thing to do, whore around
i hope u tell him and he ditches you

no offense my words are hurtful i realise that but you just se stuff like this more and more often

obviously if you love him an dhe loves you there sould be know problem but you should make it clear to him before you tell him that you love him and would not do anything intentionally to hurt him.

It would be risky but if u feel the need to tell him, then do so. U will feel better about it. Just dont expect a rosey reaction.

hi there

i think honesty is the best policy. i think you are better off telling him in person than via phone or sms.

maybe you can take him somewhere like a beach for example, so you wont be so uncomfortable telling him.

good luck!

You want to tell your boyfriend that some other guy was in you. I can guarantee he will dump you.

Telling him will help him or help you? Or both of you?
Your feeling guilty and want to get it out. Guys don't usually take their girlfriends sleeping with other guys too easily.

However honesty IS the best policy.
Since your boyfriend knows him, what if he found out later?
You two were giving each other space. I think that is your best alibi. But, you did mess up pretty good. What if he cheated on you would you like it? Do the right thing.

Dont say anything. Afterall do you know what he did in that time? You gave each other a fresh start after you break form each other...so the way I see it, your relationship starts now, and anything before that doesnt matter.