Advice????????????????????????...

I have been talking to this girl (on aim) who I met on my space for a year and a half. She keeps on saying we will hang out but we never do. We live only 5 miles from each so it鈥榮 not that far to travel. She hangs out with guys all the time that she meets online. So I think well maybe she鈥檚 not into me. So I have stopped talking to her several times but like clock work after two weeks she post a comment on my space 鈥渨here have I been 鈥?ect.. . So then I talk to her again. She gets upset when I ask for the reason why we don鈥檛 hangout .Does it make any sense that a girl would date shallow men so she doesn鈥檛 have to deal with guys on an emotional level?? Her dad had an affair and then her parent divorced when she was 12. He never took an interest in her life. I am not sure if this is the reason why she does this. She has trouble dealing with her emotions. So she hangs around people that don't challenge her in that way. I do and as a consequence I am kept at arms length.

So it鈥檚 a win/lose situation. I care about her a lot I don鈥檛 want to cut out of my life but she is putting threw hell. I know her better then anyone and she has stated as much but it doesn鈥檛 seem to matter. So what do I go to her house and say her I am???

Maybe she has have been lying to you about hanging out with guys that she meets online. Perhaps she just wants to seem outgoing and that's why she said so.

You say she gets upset when you ask her why you guys don't hang out... What exactly does she say? Does she even give a reason at all?

If you want to keep in touch with her, then suck it up and deal with the fact that she's not meeting you for some reason. And that she may never meet you, ever.

Or force her to make a choice to meet you or risk you cutting her off totally since it's not likely she's going to change if she knows you're always there for her (which is shown when you still reply to her "Where have you been?" after two weeks). She's pretty much taking you for granted.

So make her meet you or forget about any difference in the current status quo.

It has been this long; if she treasures this friendship, she should tell you the truth or at least meet you up. I don't think that's too much to ask for.

U have already identified the problem. She has emotion issues.

My advice is live in the real world. It more fun and you need less advice once you experience things for real.

I think you might be chatting to a gay guy.....

She is playing you! I'm a girl, I know what I'm talking about. Don't message her let the two weeks go by...and when she messages you...let it go.
She is full of mind games. Do you want this in your life?
Think about it...5miles away. If she wanted to meet you she would have done so already.
Follow your gut, because YOU already know what to do...so go do it! And find a live chick. Close your my space!