Is this possible???

met a girl recently and this relationship began as a secret admirer type thing- i sent her a poem i wrote for her, after reading her work on my space. we then met in person and exchanged poetry. she said she was falling for me through my writing but when she is around me, she has to hold back bc she is just starting a relationship with someone else. she flirts with me and sometimes we just look into each other eyes and she smiles softly. sometimes she checks me out a little. i think she is attracted to me, i'm more physically attractive than the person she is with, she has also written poems about me.. is it possible for her to be falling for me based on writing?

flirting- she has touched my thigh and says stuff like "whether we end up as acquiantances or friends or whatever..." one of my friends said she is with the other person bc they are both virgins

Majorly possible! Falling for someone because they are intelligent, or artistic is the best scenario!

yeah it is possible. keep on writing to her. if u both like each other, i think ur relationship will have a romantic base

is ur name Tim Harstead?

While she may be attracted to you, she is still with another guy. I personally don't play that game. It seems to me that you may be a back-up plan. She probably likes the atttention you give her. She flirts, but notice she doesn't let it go very far. She is setting a precedent. She also said "freinds, acquaintances, or whatever." How much do you want to bet on "whatever"? I would say that you can continue seeing her, but look for other women and don't put too much time,energy, or hope onto her, because she isn't available. If you don't think you can be with her without falling for her, then I guess the question is do you like the pain and frustration associated with the treatment, as I have heard it called? There is always a chance, of course, but life is short, don't waste it on "someday." Live today.